“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 315–Write Right!
Don’t sleepwalk through life.
I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!
*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
*** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo
BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!
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WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
My views can provide you with additional thoughts, along with yours, to help you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
Learn a New Word Every Day!.
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YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
THINK — AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE?
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OPENING WORDS
Living a nightmare, I am. The last accident was just added to my other pains. Since the accident in 1982, my balance has been adequate but not good at all; I could never balance on one leg very well. This morning, Wednesday, I lost my balance and fell on my butt. That surprised me. This is the only time I remember falling.
You know about the limited sleep I get. Well, I got one or two hours of shuteye last night. I have been tired all day today, Wednesday. This is not a good thing to go through. It makes me look at my entire life and wonder if it would be better if I weren’t here anymore.
Could things be getting worse for me? I am not happy at all. For most of my life since the accident, I have been joyful. I’m unsure what it will take to return to my happiness; I don’t know where to find it. It’s hard even to smile anymore.
Since Beth kicked me out, I have been lonely. I still don’t know why she had me leave; perhaps I will never know. I did much to advance our house and paid for most of it, too. We are still married, and she has not filed the necessary papers for divorce. Divorce is nothing I ever wanted, but it happens often in the world.
I have awakened to be next to someone for most of my life.
Now I have no one, such a change.
Lonely I am.
Will you be my girlfriend?
And my teeth hurt.
What am I to do?
Death gets closer.
Would anyone miss me if I wasn’t around?
Here’s the upcoming schedule >>
March 25–I meet with the neurosurgeon doc and find out how bad I am.
Then, Selective Insurance, the insurance of the guy who hit me, will attempt to find me somewhere to live. I am questioning this choice I will eventually have. I’m sort of excited and also scared about what my future holds.
On YouTube, I just watched the movie, “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest”. It’s perfect timing to see this masterpiece. It made me think of myself going to a brain injury clinic to stay, and it would be like the hospital where they were in the movie. I cannot be controlled; that would destroy me.
What a dramatic moment it was when I walked away from the van. I got what I could from the van but could not get it all. I left many memories and history back in the auto junkyard. The van is dead, which makes me so sad.
Jasmine let me use her car while I was here, thank you, Sweetie. She will take her car back on Saturday. Yet, I did not use it very much, not the same as having my van, being able to go anywhere at any time. I have nowhere to go, so I haven’t.
I need a new vehicle. Can you help? Do you have an old car you are not using, or do you know someone who can help? I will fly to anywhere to pick up the vehicle. Please help; I need wheels.
A GoFundMe account was developed to help, but some scammers in Africa took it over, and I did not get much. What an awful way for someone to make money; I could not understand. If you can help me financially, please contact me at kitsummers@gmail.com directly.
I hate just to be spending time on Earth until I die, but currently, that is happening. For most of my life, I have known what my future holds. Right now, I have no idea what my future holds — exciting and also kind of scary.
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BLOG 315–Write Right!
This subject of writing I covered in the past.
I hope it helped you with your pen-to-paper (or fingers-to-keyboard) skills.
If you learn to communicate well, you can live the life that “YOU” desire.
Each week, I put words together to add to your life. I’ve written hundreds of blog posts. Quite a challenge to bring together words for you each week on different topics. You can do the same! As I’ve written before, “If one person can do it–so can you!–You just have to find the way.” Start your blog today!
I’ve written 15 books to help people, along with my weekly blog. I never saw myself as a writer in my younger days—here I am. You are too, yes? Please start posting and adding to my weekly blog and/or start your blog. I would love to read your words. Posting words is the key; you may have to make yourself first.
To become a better writer, you must practice regularly, read widely, understand your audience, and focus on conciseness and clarity. You must also use an active voice and avoid jargon and filler words. One top writing tip is to write as regularly as possible. This helps you exercise the part of your brain responsible for your writing skills.
Every word you write should have a purpose and broaden what you have written. Your words and paragraphs should build and build the purpose of what you want to get across.
Even if you feel like you’ve mastered the basics of writing, there’s always more to learn. Keep reading books about writing, watching videos, and taking courses or participating in workshops to improve your skills. The best writing uses limited words to get your point across.
There are plenty of writing tools available on computers. For all my writing, I use https://app.grammarly.com/; it does wonders for what I publish. Clear communication fuels results that speak for themselves, whether in a winning sales pitch or a blog to help people.
Grammarly is the AI communication partner trusted by over 40 million people and 50,000 organizations. From instantly creating a first draft to perfecting a final one, Grammarly helps you develop your message and bring home the desired results. There are free versions of Grammarly or a low fee for a better, paid version. Look into it; this program will improve your writing, for sure.
Grammarly Free is designed to improve and polish everyday writing so anyone can confidently write. Grammarly Pro goes further, helping professionals and teams streamline workflows and make every document and message more effective. Believe me, it is worth the money.
The more you know about writing, the better you’ll be at it. In addition, by continually learning new things, you’ll be able to bring fresh perspectives to your writing. So, commit to keep growing as a writer, and you’ll see your skills improve drastically, done with an active voice.
Definition:
An active voice occurs when the subject of a sentence.
Does the verb describe the action?
The typical structure is Subject + Verb + Object.
Here is an example >>
Active: “The dog chased the ball.” (The dog is doing the action)
Passive: “The ball was chased by the dog.” (The ball is receiving the action)
Benefits of Active Voice:
Clarity: An active voice makes it easier for the reader to understand who is doing what.
Conciseness: Active sentences are often shorter and more direct than passive sentences.
Emphasis: Active voice emphasizes the subject, the doer of the action.
When to use Active Voice:
The active voice is most often preferred unless there’s a specific reason to use the passive voice (e.g., when the action is more important than the actor or when the actor is unknown or unimportant).
Ideals to help >>
1–Practice Regularly:
Write consistently: Like any skill, writing improves as you use it.
Set writing goals: Aim to write regularly, even if it’s just for a few minutes daily.
Don’t be afraid if you write poorly.
Just focus on getting words on the page and then edit later.
(The key to good writing is the editing process, by the way.)
2–Read Widely:
Expose yourself to different subjects and styles: Read a variety of styles and authors to learn from their techniques. We all write differently, so pay close attention to sentence structure and vocabulary. Notice how authors craft their writing and use the language. As you read, read aloud: This helps you identify awkward phrasing and improve flow.
3–Understand Your Audience:
Know your readers and what they look for: Consider their background, knowledge, and expectations.
Edit your writing style to them: Adjust your tone and vocabulary to suit your audience.
Ensure your points are clear and easy to understand–
Clear writing is usually more effective.
4–Focus on Clarity and Conciseness:
Use simple language: Avoid jargon and complex sentences unless necessary.
Be direct and to the point: Get straight to the point and avoid unnecessary words.
Use active voice: Active voice makes your writing more engaging and easier to read.
Edit and revise: Don’t be afraid to cut unnecessary words or sentences.
Fewer words often lead to better communication.
5–I’d like you to outline your writing:
This step will help you organize your thoughts and create a logical flow.
Take notes: Jot down ideas and information as you read and research.
6–Seek feedback: Ask others to read your work and provide constructive criticism.
Don’t be afraid to break the rules: Once you understand the writing rules, you can experiment with different styles and techniques. Do your research: Solid research adds depth and credibility to your work.
PRACTICE TIME >>
Here are some exercises to help improve your writing.
Write about each of these areas.
Thank you, Jasmine, for sending these,
A Place That Changed You–
Write about a destination that transformed your perspective, mindset, or way of life.
A Journey Through the Senses—
Describe a place using only sensory details: sounds, smells, textures, and tastes–details.
Lost & Found–
Share a story about getting lost in a new place and what you discovered.
Letter to a City–
Write a love letter (or a breakup letter) to a city you’ve visited or lived in.
The First 24 Hours—
Capture the magic, confusion, and excitement of your first day in a new destination.
EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
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WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
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Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
READ CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
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I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
“That’s the thing about books,
they let you travel without moving your feet.”
—Jhumpa Lahiri
“And now that you don’t have to be perfect,
you can be good.”
—John Steinbeck
“I don’t wait for moods.
You accomplish nothing if you do that.
Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”
—Pearl S. Buck
“No need to force yourself to do something the “right way”.
If it’s not your right way.
Your job is to honor your process.”
—Andi Cumbo
“Writing is a calling, not a choice.”
—Isabel Allende
“For your born writer, nothing is so healing as the
realization that he has come upon the right word.”
—Catherine Drinker Bowen
“Instructions for living a life.
Pay attention.
Be astonished.
Tell about it.”
―Mary Oliver
“When I write,
I give people access to their own emotions.”
—Gord Downie
“Lying in front of the house, all
afternoon, trying to write a poem.
Falling asleep.
Waking up under the stars.”
—Jack Gilbert
“Give me books, fruit, French wine,
fine weather and a little music.”
—John Keats
“The idea is to write it so that people hear it and it
slides through the brain and goes straight to the heart.”
—Maya Angelou
“We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”
―Anaïs Nin
“Start writing, no matter what.
The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on.”
―Louis L’Amour
“There is something delicious about writing the first words of a story.
You never quite know where they’ll take you.”
―Beatrix Potter
“A word after a word after a word is power.”
―Margaret Atwood
“The purpose of a writer is to keep
civilization from destroying itself.”
―Albert Camus
“My aim is to put down on paper what I see
and what I feel in the best and simplest way.”
―Ernest Hemingway
“If a story is in you, it has to come out.”
—William Faulkner
“I love writing.
I love the swirl and swing of words
as they tangle with human emotions.”
—James Michener
“Your intuition knows what to write,
so get out of the way.”
—Ray Bradbury
“A writer, I think, is someone
who pays attention to the world.”
—Susan Sontag
“The scariest moment is always just before you start.”
—Stephen King
“Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.”
—William Wordsworth
“That’s the thing about books,
they let you travel without moving your feet.”
—Jhumpa Lahiri
“And now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.”
—John Steinbeck
“I don’t wait for moods.
You accomplish nothing if you do that.
Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”
—Pearl S. Buck
“No need to force yourself to do something
the “right way” if it’s not your right way.
Your job is to honor your process.”
—Andi Cumbo
“Writing is a calling, not a choice.”
—Isabel Allende
“A good poem is a contribution to reality.
The world is never the same once a good poem has been added to it.
A good poem helps to change the shape of the universe,
helps to extend everyone’s knowledge of himself and the world around him.”
―Dylan Thomas
“If something inside of you is real,
we will probably find it interesting,
and it will probably be universal.
So you must risk placing real emotion
at the center of your work.
Write straight into the emotional center of things.”
—Anne Lamott
YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!
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MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Would you happen to know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!
3/15–I can’t remember what I did on this day. I’m sorry.
3/16–I went to Best Buy about my old computer, which they had to repair. I was told that they would buy my old computer. I checked for an open-box computer, which had a good discount. About two hundred for the new computer. Jasmine thought it was too much to spend when I needed a new vehicle, so I did not buy it.
Beth and I were married for about two years. Today, I received evil hatred from her; I did not even know why. She has a friend named Valerie, who also sent hatred my way—such a difference I found in her. There is hatred, but I still love the woman.
3/17–I’ve been thinking a lot about my van. Linda, who works as a taxi, helped me get my stuff from the van and took photos of it.
As you can see from the images, it was worse than I imagined.
3/18–I Spent most of the day in my single room, although I got out to buy some food. I ate a salad; that is all I will eat. But I wrote that too soon. I made spaghetti with chicken, which was tastiness and filled me up.
Up at midnight thinking about the accident.
3/19–Last night, I did not return to slumber; today, I will be tired. As you’ve read, sleep has always been a problem for me. I still function fine, even with little shuteye.
At noonish, I will go to volunteer with https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/
I like helping if I can, and it takes me off of my miserable life.
Things have got to change for the better sometimes. I’ll wait and see.
Today, eight of us taped bags of rice, and they wouldn’t leak.
Right now, on YouTube, I am watching “One Flew Over the Couckoo’s Nest.” I have concerns that something like that will be in my future, and it scares me.
3/20–Very lonely here, still. For much of the day, I worked on my writing for you. Do you see improvements?
I have such great memories of the past when I could bring joy into my life.
What is different now?
Well, I look to the future and see nothing.
Thank you, Jasmine and April, my daughters, for helping while I am in the area.
3/21–Slept until 3 am, late for me. But that’s enough about my sleep troubles.
THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section about gardening in.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now, but there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life. —
You must look into it.
Because I am back on the road, there will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
When I drove the van seven years ago,
I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
I may start that up in my van garden again.
You will find out, of course.
START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!
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ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
Work on your writing and communication skills this week.
I want to see avancement in your written word.
Let me know later how you advanced.
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NEXT BLOG >>
BLOG 316–Things you do as a human (yes, YOU.)
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AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
