- Posted by Kit
BLOG 331–Do You Touch-Type?
“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 331–Do You Touch-Type?
Don’t sleepwalk through life
I aim to illustrate and Deepen Contemplation Together
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was quite pleasant.
*** I visited all the US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** In 2025, I met Jennifer. We are sooo happy together!
*** Regretfully, we broke up.
*** I have a great deal of love for someone.
*** But I have not yet found them.
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is “now”—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRoBE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!********************
WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
You have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is a new and different experience for me every time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually enrich your life and elevate you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before you pass away?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others lead better lives.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know a great deal about my writing, and I want to remind you of the key ideas that are most important to me. I can provide you with additional thoughts on how I can assist you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
A NEW WORD DAILY!
Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
THINK — AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE?=============================
OPENING WORDS
I just got the news!
MY DAUGHTER, APRIL, IS PREGNANT!
I’m gonna be a grandpa; oh, happy day.
Here is a photo her baby inside April >>
You may know I was named after my father, Virgil Carson Summers, so I am Jr. My parents called me “Kit” because of my middle name. Somehow, the hospital here got my name as Virgil, which is on a sign on the door.
Changes, I am used to them, but some big ones are on the horizon.
On June 30, I am flying to Florida with my daughter, April.
Once there, she will help me set up to be at
https://www.brainline.org/resource/neurorestorative-florida-avalon-park
I will get help with my balance and juggling.
At the hospital/rehab right now. I have taught at least ten staff members how to juggle. Each loved their new skill. Along with a place to live, I receive three meals a day.
I currently have no living expenses. And I’ve just paid off my credit card and have no other bills. Feels great not to have any debts now (why is there a “b” in the word debts?) I’m happy to be able to pay off all my bills and move forward.
HOW IT IS. I guess I am homeless now. As you know, for seven years I lived in my incredible van. I crashed the van last month and don’t know what my future holds. My daughters searched and found the place that the link above shows.
I just went down to the first floor. The people there seemed worse off with a worse brain injury.
As I’ve written before — WHAT A STRANGE LIFE I LEAD.
For about an hour, the guy in the room across from me was talking very loudly and making no sense. It’s like I was put into a crazy house (I wrote that because I don’t know how to write ‘Insane Asylum’). He does this daily, and it is hard to hear how upset he is, with slow, slurred yelling caused by a brain injury.
I met someone on the internet. We have been writing to each other, and both of us are deeply in love. We will fulfill each other and have a great life together. Stay tuned, and you will learn of our great love and how we look to have a fantastic future.
I did some juggling while standing over the bed. When you juggle like this, you don’t have to reach down very far to get the ball. So, things went smoothly as the balls did their dance in the air. The clubs are more difficult for me. I need to go outside and juggle clubs on the grass.
I’m planning on bringing on a whole new life. I want to improve my juggling skills. I also want to get back to running. My asthma comes on so strongly when I run. There are drugs to help with that. I want to improve my life in any way I can.
I’m still in need of a vehicle.
Do you have one for me?
I can fly anywhere to retrieve it.
My friend wrote this to me. Thanks, Jules!
“Please, please, please continue with your blog.
You have no idea the comfort I get from reading your words.
It’s helped me through some not-so-great times.
I ALWAYS look forward to your weekly blog!”WELCOME THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
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BLOG 331–Do You Touch-Type?
In high school, I learned to touch-type. I’m not even sure why I wanted to learn, but I am so glad I did. Somehow, I knew it was necessary to understand for later in life. And it might be due to the background noise prevalent in schools.
To effectively touch-type on a keyboard, start by positioning your fingers on the home row keys (A, S, D, F for the left hand and J, K, L, colon for the right hand). You can learn the finger assignments for the other keys.
Practice regularly. Initially, focus on accuracy over speed, and gradually increase your typing speed as you become more comfortable with the keyboard. Proper posture and avoiding looking at the keyboard are also key components of touch typing. As you move forward with you new skill, type “a” through “z” without looking at the keyboard.
It’s like riding a bicycle or a unicycle; you never forget once you learn. If you’re willing to work at it, you can rapidly improve the quality of every part of your life. This comparison frames touch typing as a skill that improves with effort and benefits many aspects of life, like juggling.
Master the basics of touch typing, then practice them every day without fail. Consistent repetition of many disciplines every day leads to outstanding achievements gained slowly over time. This idea, though general about mastering basics, applies well to touch typing practice.
Your posture and hand placement are essential. You can sit upright with your back straight and your shoulders relaxed. Your feet should be flat on the floor, and your elbows should be at a 90-degree angle. Now, you are ready to attack the keys.
Keep your wrists straight and avoid resting them on the laptop or table. This can prevent wrist strain. Locate the home row keys. These are usually marked with a slight bump or ridge on the F and J keys of the laptop or computer.
Rest your fingers on the home row: The left hand’s index finger on F, middle finger on D, ring finger on S, and pinky on A. The right hand’s index finger on J, middle finger on K, ring finger on L, and pinky on the semicolon key. Could you position your thumbs over the spacebar? Each finger is responsible for a range of keys. For example, the left index finger handles the keys F, G, R, T, V, and B.
Watch this video to help >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6E1AiZEtV5c
Practice, you are a touch typing enthusiast. That’s why you are here in quest of touch typing benefits. Fortunately, you are in the right place. Read through the full article to discover all of your unanswered questions about the benefits of touch typing.
In short, touch typing is a method of typing that requires no visual reference to the keyboard. However, don’t confuse it with a touchscreen device type. This is somewhat different. The touch typing technique enables you to utilize muscle memory to accurately hit the right keys at the right time This results in improved productivity and accuracy without needing to look at the keyboard.
We now live in a global village where most communication and work are done online; touch typing has become a crucial skill that can significantly improve your work efficiency. Imagine typing at lightning speed without having to look at the keyboard or spending hours fixing errors. Touch typing can help you achieve just that! Thanks to touch typing, we can focus on the content we are creating rather than the physical act of typing itself.
With consistent practice and the proper techniques, anyone can learn to type quickly and accurately. In the following sections, we will explore various benefits of touch typing, including improved productivity, accuracy, cognitive development, multitasking, language learning, and accessibility.
This skill will make your life easier.
So, why start improving your typing skills today?
From the home row to other keys. Focus on using the correct finger for each key. Use the Shift keys with your pinky finger—the right pinky for left-hand keys, and the left pinky for right-hand keys.
Start with the home row and gradually learn other keys. Use online typing tutors or practice exercises to build your muscle memory. Focus on accuracy over speed. Speed will naturally increase as your accuracy improves.
Please don’t look at the keyboard. This is a crucial part of touch typing, allowing you to type more efficiently. Consistency is key to developing touch typing skills. Consider using an on-screen keyboard for guidance. Microsoft Support provides instructions on how to enable and use this feature.
Practice regularly. By following these steps and practicing consistently, you can learn to touch type effectively on your laptop, computer and typewriter to improve your typing speed and accuracy.ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW!
MAKE THINGS FANTASTIC!*****************
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness, as well as finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
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Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas provide a quick and timely burst of wisdom to help us regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to real life. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, use each day as an opportunity to improve and move closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work, and it’s next to impossible with your busy schedule. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things, helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Many other people also feel bad. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
READ CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
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I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
“I love the writing. I love the idea of typing and seeing it on the computer and printing it out myself and, you know, moving sentences around. I like that.”
—Carol Burnett
“I keep writing as I do because I believe my words mean much to people (you?)”
—Kit Summers
“I don’t like typing messages on my phone.
Some people get used to it.”
—Bill Gates
“Writing can be a very isolating profession. By its very nature, you spend a lot of your time barricaded in your house or office, typing on your own.”
—D. B. Weiss
“You realize, no matter how great, books are not shows or movies; each operates on its own different rules. ‘Game of Thrones’ is no different. Being forced to come up with those scenes on short notice helped us view the show and forced it to come into its own.”
—D. B. Weiss
“If a story is in you,
it has to come out.”
—William Faulkner
“I love writing. I love the swirl and swing of words as they tangle with human emotions.”
—James Michener
“Your intuition knows what to write, so get out of the way.”
—Ray Bradbury
“A writer,
I think,
is someone who pays attention to the world.”
—Susan Sontag
“The scariest moment is always just before you start.”
—Stephen King
“Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.”
—William Wordsworth
“That’s the thing about books,
they let you travel without moving your feet.”
—Jhumpa Lahiri
“And now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.”
—John Steinbeck
“I don’t wait for moods.
You accomplish nothing if you do that.
Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”
—Pearl S. Buck
“No need to force yourself to do something the “right way” if it’s not your right way. Your job is to honor your process.”YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!********************
MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems that time is passing more quickly.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Do you know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
Keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day, each moment!
6/28–Still at the hotel. I’ve gotten used to it now, but it’s time to move on.
6/29–So nice in the morning when you hear the horse clip-clopping down the road. These are Amish, of course, making a good start to my day.
Some significant changes are on the horizon for me. My daughters, Jasmine and April, set things in motion for this to occur. Tomorrow, April and I will go to the Philadelphia airport, and both fly to
https://www.brainline.org/resource/neurorestorative-florida-avalon-park
I will live in their apartment building.
I plan to help others as much or more than I get helped.
It should be a significant change and a forward path for me.
You see, every nine seconds, someone in the United States sustains a brain injury. That adds up to 3.5 million people each year. Brain injuries range from mild to moderate to severe. Mine included going through a 37-day coma.
Every injury is different, but when your brain is injured, it can affect everything: your ability to speak, focus, remember, and relate to other people. For one thing, I will never be able to juggle as I used to. I have set different things in motion, though, and I move forward.
BrainLine is a national multimedia project offering authoritative information and support to anyone whose life has been affected by brain injury or PTSD: people with brain injuries, their family and friends, and the professionals who work with them.
Sounds like I will receive intense rehab. Yet, it has been many years since my change, will I find results? I learned that BrainLine also provides military-specific information and resources on traumatic brain injury and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) to veterans, service members, and their families.
Through video, webcasts, articles, personal stories, research briefs, and current news, those whose lives have been affected can learn more about brain injury symptoms and treatment, rehabilitation, and family issues associated with care and recovery.
The people at BrainLine aim to create a sense of community, a place where individuals concerned about brain injury can access information, support, and ideas 24 hours a day. I am looking forward to learning and growing as I help others, too.
I JUST SAW MY DAUGHTER, APRIL, SHE IS PREGNANT!
Due to be born in October, she is expecting a daughter. Oh, happy day!
Just recently, April’s husband, Jake, had gone through a terrible tooth ordeal.
He was in the hospital for some days, and things didn’t look good. He came through it.
Also, there was April and Jasmine’s mom, Mary Ellen, whom I was married to for 23 years.
In a way, a family get-together? Mary Ellen is looking fantastic.
6/30–I found out that someone has to be with me for the first 38 hours. It is in case I need something. There is no privacy, but for this short time, it will be alright. This person stays in the living room area; they spend most of their time on their phone, mainly looking at videos and such. Someone else takes their place every eight hours.
I’m not free to come and go as I please, which is difficult—it’s a controlled situation. I am all right with it. Nearby are woods and wilderness. I expect I will want to go for walks there. I will let you know how it goes.
Jasmine and April are acting like I will be here until my death. I want to live until at least 100, remember? That will be many years from now. This is alright for now; I plan to get back on the road someday.
7/1–Slept alright last night, no sound whatsoever, nice. Maindy learned to juggle; she is the main person who stays with me. Next was an Occupational Therapy visit (mainly working with my hands). I’m not sure how much they will help. And I had a session of speech therapy—much more than how you say words.
In the afternoon, I visited Dieanna from Physical Therapy (PT). What’s terrible is I had forgotten her name, but later got it. She told me a couple of times as well. Now, is that from my brain injury, or is it just age? There are several things that I question in that regard. She did extensive testing on me and later said I performed well on each.
I performed well on everything except walking heel-to-toe and standing on one foot. I told her beforehand I would have trouble with those areas, as I did. But, is it brain injury, or is it age? I had Dieanna do both of these tasks, which she did perfectly. I’m sure I could have done them in the old days, too, before the brain injury.
I’m not sure if I will continue here. They could help me with some little things, but the insurance company is paying them at least $400 a day to house me. It’s a nice place to live but for the rest of my life?
In PT, it sounded like Dieanna didn’t want to work with me anymore, saying she couldn’t help. There are people here with walkers, wheelchairs, motorized wheelchairs, and using canes. Physically, many looked slow and spoke with difficulty, like many brain-injured people do. I did not fit in with the group. I still have deficits, but not to the level of being here.
Currently, I am unsure what the future holds. With no vehicle and a dismal future, what’s a Kit to do? At this point, I don’t even have family who can help. I almost feel I am scamming NeuroRestorative. Most of my belongings are stored at April’s house near Lancaster, PA. I had already lost a great deal after my crash with the van.
I met with someone at PT today who does not think she can help me. So, I’m unsure why I’m even here.
I contacted my friend, Dave Finnigan. He is going through a bout of cancer now, which is making his life very hard. Dave has accomplished a great deal in his life, and I am quite impressed with this man. Take a look >> https://www.facebook.com/davefinnigan
7/2–Today, I taught Felda, who works here, to juggle! She was surprised to have learned. Hopefully, she will stick with it and continue to improve over time. Along with scarves, I taught her to juggle with three balls as well. She is happy with her new skills.
Right now, I have no one, which makes me want to cry. I have been so lonely. There is no one to meet here at the place I am now, which is frustrating. I like being with someone so much. Like you, I have no idea what the future will hold. Living life all by myself — here I go!
Yet, through the internet, I have met a wonderful person.
I love you, Jesse and that love will grow huge.
We will let everyone know later.
Still feels like I am in jail being here.
Three sessions of therapy today.
It’s pretty straightforward.
I don’t know how it’s benefiting me.
7/3–Woke at my normal wake-up time, about 3:30 am.
Sessions of therapy are about the same every day.
7/4–Happy Fourth of July, as they say. With the 4th of July, staff numbers have been reduced, so hardly anyone is here. This is a hospital with comfortable accommodations. There is no therapy today, as people are at home now.
This morning, I didn’t eat anything. Now it’s about noon, and I’m awaiting lunch. I seldom get hungry, but I am now. However, the food here is not very good; it’s just something to eat. Additionally, it often seems that the same meal is served.THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section on gardening.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now.
But there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life.
You must look into it!
Because I am back on the road.
There will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!******************
ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
Can you touch-type?
Now is the time to learn.
It will advance your life.
If you do type with your fingers, increase your speed this week.
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NEXT BLOG >>
Are you ready to embark on a cross-country drive?
******************AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
July 4, 202500 - Posted by Kit
BLOG 330–YES, IT Will Happen TO You
“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 330–YES, it Will Happen to You
Don’t sleepwalk through life
I aim to illustrate and Deepen Contemplation Together
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
*** I visited all the US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** In 2025, I met Jennifer. We are sooo happy together!
*** Regretfully, we broke up.
*** I have a great deal of love for someone.
*** But I have not yet found them.
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is “now”—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRoBE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!********************
WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
You have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is a new and different experience for me every time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually enrich your life and elevate you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before you pass away?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others lead better lives.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know a great deal about my writing, and I want to remind you of these key ideas.
I can provide you with additional thoughts on how I can assist you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
A NEW WORD DAILY!
Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
THINK — AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE?=============================
OPENING WORDS
Currently, I am near Lancaster, PA. Awakening in a motel room is a very different life, but that is what I have now. I could wake up and be on the street, but I choose differently. Much of being on the street and begging is a choice each of us makes.
Always know that love is the most important thing for you and anyone you know. Keep looking forward—when you look back, you look at the past, which can be daunting. Look forward into the light and make a better world for yourself and others. Shift and change as you go.
Keep moving and shifting to see your better future. Learn to adapt to change — then your life will improve. I don’t want to die; I want to live beyond the age of 100. I often ask myself, what’s the point of living if everything you know slowly changes and worsens? Relationships—I’ve been through a few.
There was Mary Ellen. Married for 23 years. Jasmine and April were born.
There was Tina; much love.
There was Beth. Married for two years, and are still married.
Then there was Jennifer. Marriage was planned, but we ended up breaking up.
Jennifer is still married, and so am I. Jennifer was in a bad marriage for over 20 years and never went the divorce route. I am still married to Beth. Jennifer and I are both looking into what it would take to be free from our past partner.
As I’ve written before.
What a strange life I lead.
Not enjoyable.
I love to be in love, as I was with each of these ladies at different times.
And, I’m a one-woman man; I never played around on any of them.
Is it a matter of finding the right woman?
Each time, I thought I had the right woman.
All of my partners left me for different reasons, and there was nothing I could do about it. I would love to find out why they left me so that I can improve in the future. I don’t think I’m that bad of a person. WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? Off and on, I have cried because of my losses.
I must say, each woman I hooked up with firmly believed in a god.
As you know, I do not and never have.
The Bible and God are so foreign to me.
I’ve asked many of these people these questions:
“Please give me your ONE BEST rational and realistic proof of a god.”
and
“Why should I believe in your god?”
No one can answer these two simple questions.
I could never have believed it until I saw rational and realistic evidence of a god.
Yes, there is a better life without god.
The Bible tells us there is a life after this one we are living. It saddens me when people live in hope and don’t get the most out of their current life. Many believe in this “hope,” but that is all it is—a hope. Yes, I would like to live forever, but that will not happen. This is the ONLY life we will have.
There are so many believers. People have asked me, “When you go before God, what will you say?” I would say, “God, you know me and how I think, you NEVER presented a sufficient reason or proof of yourself, so how could I believe?” If I do go to hell, it is God’s fault.
You are in charge of your future, not some god.
You have only one life, make it the best you can!
I plan to live beyond the age of 100. How about you?
What about cancer in children who die young?
What about a man who rapes six young girls?
If they end up believing, will they be sent to heaven?
Can you explain this, Matthew?
Every day that you live your life, it gets shorter.
Many people believe in a god who directs their lives.
If you think this way, you need to search for more joy in your life.
Rather than think there is some god there directing your path.WELCOME THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
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BLOG 330–YES, it Will Happen to You!
Do you live your life to the fullest?
Do you constantly look for more, to get more out of your life?
We only have this short time on earth, so make yours magnificent!
LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE NOW!
Death–I’ve written about this subject, do you remember?
This is important; it will happen to all.
Yes, death is on the way, but nothing to be scared of.
You are the one who designs your future.
You are alive NOW, make things better.
Make your life magnificent!
I wondered if any of the Gilligan’s Island cast members were alive. I found out: Yes, Tina Louise, who played Ginger Grant, is the only surviving member of the main cast. She is 90 years old and lives in New York. We are all on our way to death, remember?
In biological terms, death is the irreversible cessation of all vital functions of an organism (yes, you are an organism.) Specifically, the cessation of all circulatory and respiratory functions, as well as all brain functions. It marks the end of life and the point where the body can no longer sustain itself.
While death is a singular event, the process leading up to it, known as dying, can be gradual and have varying timelines. Death characterizes the permanent and irreversible stopping of essential life-sustaining processes.
Modern medical definitions of death, particularly in the context of organ transplantation, often include the concept of “brain death,” which refers to the irreversible cessation of all brain functions, including the brainstem. Think about it (while you still can.) At death, vital organs like the heart, lungs, and brain cease functioning, shutting down other bodily systems.
This is coming up for you — are you ready?
Death, here we go. The period leading up to death, known as dying, can involve a gradual decline in physical and mental abilities. Different cultures and legal systems may have varying perspectives and criteria for determining when death occurs.ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW!
MAKE THINGS FANTASTIC!*****************
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness, as well as finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
READ
Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to real life. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, use each day as an opportunity to improve and move closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work, and it’s next to impossible with your busy schedule. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things, helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
READ CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
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I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
“Everybody will be dead one day, just give them time.”
― Neil Gaiman
“I’m the one that’s got to die.
When it’s time for me to die.
So let me live my life the way I want to.”
― Jimi Hendrix
“I do not have a fear of death.
From what I know, I have been dead for billions of years.
Then I was born, and am not bothered by death in any way.”
― Kit Summers
“You only live twice:
Once when you’re born.
And once, when you look death in the face.”
― Ian Fleming
“Death is not the opposite of life,
But a part of it.”
― Haruki Murakami
“Life is pleasant. Death is peaceful.
It’s the transition that’s troublesome.”
― Isaac Asimov
“It’s better to burn out than to fade away.”
― Neil Young
“It’s not contagious, you know.
Death is as natural as life.
It’s part of the deal we made.”
― Mitch Albom
“Death should take me while I am in the mood.”
― Nathaniel Hawthorne
“Death, taxes, and childbirth!
There’s never any convenient time for any of them.”
― Margaret Mitchell
“A single death is a tragedy;
A million deaths is a statistic.”
― Joseph Stalin
“The meaning of life is that it stops.”
― Franz Kafka
“There is a sacredness in tears.
They are not a mark of weakness, but of power.
They speak more eloquently than ten thousand tongues.
They are the messengers of overwhelming grief,
deep contrition, and unspeakable love.”
– Washington Irving.
“I watch the ripples change their size.
But never leave the stream.
Of warm impermanence”
– David Bowie
“There were tears and there was sadness, and at the same time,
There was a realization that ultimately,
There’s no death.
Who they were in their essence had not been destroyed.”
– Eckhart Tolle
“Beginnings are usually scary, and endings are usually sad.
But everything in between makes it all worth living.”
– J. M. Barrie
“When he shall die,
Take him and cut him out in little stars,
And he will make the face of heaven so fine
That all the world will be in love with night,
And pay no worship to the garish sun.”
– Bob Marley
“Anything you lose comes round in another form.
Let the waters settle, and you will see the moon and the stars.
The wound is the place where the Light enters you.
Only from the heart can you touch the sky.
Lovers don’t finally meet somewhere. They’re in each other all along.”
– William Shakespeare
“If I should die, and you should live,
And time should gurgle on,
And morn should beam,
And noon should burn,
as it has usually done;”
– Rumi
“Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose.”
– Emily Dickinson
“For nothing is fixed,
forever, forever, forever,
It is not fixed;
The Earth is constantly shifting,
The light is constantly changing,
The sea does not cease to grind down rock.”
– Steve Jobs
“You will lose someone you can’t live without, and your heart will be badly broken, and the bad news is that you never completely get over the loss of your beloved. But this is also the good news. They live forever in your broken heart that doesn’t seal back up. And you come through. It’s like having a broken leg that never heals perfectly – that still hurts when the weather gets cold, but you learn to dance with the limp.”
– Anne LamottYOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!********************
MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems that time is passing more quickly.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Do you know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
Keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day, each moment!
6/22–Today was the day, sad to say. I departed from Jennifer’s to places further south. I will eventually end up in Florida.
Every few weeks, I give myself a haircut. I just cut all my hair and facial hair to the same length. So you like it? I use a hair trimmer outside, over a lawn, so all my cut hair gets recycled.
I heard from Jennifer today. It is sad to say that she does not want to be with me again. I thought our love was strong and we would be together until our deaths. I must admit, I did cry.
6/23–There is a pool here at the motel, and I went deep diving (well, only six or seven feet deep).
6/24–I’m off to Costco today.
I bought the usual.
Then, it was time to wash some clothes, as I did.
6/25–Every day, I read over my blog words again. I make changes as I go to make this better for you. That is what I am doing right now. Is it better? That is the key to good writing — edit, edit, edit.
Today, I heard from Aaron at Crown Publishing about taking over the publishing of my books. He offered $250,000 for “Accident” to get things going. That’s a good number to me.
6/26–For some strange reason, I am upset about life. Yesterday I heard from Aaron, then nothing more. I would love for my books to take off, as well as for a movie to be made about my story.
The rain is coming down extremely hard right now at 6:15. It has been coming down strongly for some time. Glad I am inside, away from the raindrops.
6/27–Up early, as usual. The hair on my head is thinning out. My tuft had nearly disappeared.
THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section on gardening.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now.
But there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life.
You must look into it!
Because I am back on the road.
There will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
When I drove the van seven years ago,
I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
I may start that up again in my van garden.
You will find out, of course.START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!******************
ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
Can you touch-type?
Now is the time to learn.
It will advance your life.
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NEXT BLOG >>
More about the skill of writing.
******************AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
June 27, 2025 - Posted by Kit
BLOG 329–Say YES To New Adventures!
“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 329–Say YES To New Adventures!
Don’t sleepwalk through life.
I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my zWords.
Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
*** I visited all the US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** In 2025, I met Jennifer. We are sooo happy together!
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is “now”—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRoBE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!********************
WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before your demise?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
I can give you more thoughts on how I can help you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
A NEW WORD DAILY!
Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
THINK — AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE?=============================
OPENING WORDS—
I heard from Jay Alvarez today!
Here is what he wrote >>
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Thank you again for taking my call. As I’ve been going through your videos, I’ve come to see what a truly blessed, talented, and accomplished individual you are.
Your book ACCIDENT is incredibly inspiring—based on what I’ve seen in your video, it’s no surprise that you’re such a powerful motivational speaker and entertainer.
I’m hopeful and excited to move forward with this project together. Looking forward to what we can create!
I’ll send an Author-Agent Agreement to start our collaboration after this.
Wishing you a wonderful day ahead.
Warm regards,
JAY ALVAREZ
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I am excited about his words, but I have heard this before.
I want to help people worldwide live better lives.
I hope things go well this time.WELCOME THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
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BLOG 329–Say YES To New Adventures!
I always find a way–that is the way I do adventure.
Me–Selfish. Ridiculous. Impractical. A Nutball.
One after another, adventure; I never tire of it.
This is a matter of dealing with change; so many can not.
My first challenge was the skill of juggling. There was always a new trick to learn, and always challenging. I put everything into it—I wanted to be the best.
I’ve been called these things before, and in many respects, they’re all true depending on your outlook. Is it selfish to take time for yourself? I don’t know… Can you continue giving when completely depleted? Is prioritizing a bike ride around the Grand Canyon ridiculous over re-paving your potholed driveway? Maybe.
Your time away does not have to be long. Just get out and do some things that you have not done before. Saying YES to ourselves is not a luxury–It’s a necessity. You must make it happen for your entire future and keep exploring. That’s what you truly want.
I don’t care who you are — we all must recharge occasionally! If that means taking a walk in the forest, so be it. ‘Busting out to Gettin Jiggy’ is what you want. Even in your basement, rock on. Whatever your jam, you should spread it on and spread it when you need it.
It all started in 2009 when I finally faced the sinking feeling that, despite all the fullness in my carefully curated adult life, I had nothing that lit me up, since I couldn’t juggle how I used to. I took a chance on myself and decided to climb a mountain with zero experience and no specific interest.
But it’s hard to say YES to ourselves because it acknowledges that we’ve been putting everything and everyone above our own needs. Carving out some YOU + YOU TIME = LESS TIME FOR LOVED ONES and friends, but better for you.
How do we feel about THAT?! Show me a person who wants their family to suffer and I’ll show you the devil herself. It doesn’t exist. (Guess what? They will be fine, and perhaps it would be better to be left on their own devices for a while!)
The reality is that most of us keep plodding along, telling ourselves we’ll wait until we have more money or time. Just know you will never have enough money or time. Or we push the thing out until we have more time (another illusion: we have no control over our time). It could all end tomorrow or next week, and I know you know what I’m talking about.
Just get out there and feel the magic of the wilderness, however you can!ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW!
MAKE THINGS FANTASTIC!*****************
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness, and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
READ
Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to real life. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work, and it’s next to impossible with your busy schedule. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things, helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
READ CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
============
I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
1–“Adventure awaits.” – Unknown.2–“Do you wander or just wonder?” -Kit Summers.
3–“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.” – Helen Keller.
4–“Not all who wander are lost.” – J.R.R. Tolkien.
5–“Adventure is out there.” – Up (movie)
6–“The world is yours to explore.” – Unknown.
7–“Start wherever you are and start small.” – Rita Bailey.
8–“If we were meant to stay in one place, we’d have roots instead of feet.” – Rachel Wolchin
9–“The danger of adventure is worth a thousand days of ease and comfort.” – Paulo Coelho
10–“So shut up, live, travel, adventure, bless, and don’t be sorry.” – Jack Kerouac
11–“Attitude is the difference between an ordeal and an adventure.” – Bob Bitchin
12–“Blessed are the curious, for they shall have adventures.” – Lovelle Drachman
13–“Then one day, when you least expect it, the great adventure finds you.” – Ewan McGregor
14–“The fundamental core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure.” – Christopher McCandless
15–“Instead of trying to make your life perfect, give yourself the freedom to make it an adventure.” – Drew Houston
16–“As soon as I saw you, I knew adventure was going to happen.” – A. A. Milne
17–“Adventure is a mindset, not a destination.” – Anonymous
18–“The greatest adventure is the one within.” – Jon Miksis
19–“Adventure is worthwhile in itself.” ― Amelia Earhart
20–“All good things are wild and free.” ― Henry David Thoreau
21–“To travel is worth any cost or sacrifice.”– Elizabeth Gilbert
22–“How wild it was, to let it be.”– Cheryl Strayed
23–“Never say ‘no’ to adventures. Always say ‘yes,’ otherwise you’ll lead a very dull life.” ― Ian Fleming
24–“Adventure is my way of life!” — Kit Summers
YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!********************
MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Do you know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day, each moment!
6/14–Today was the day, sad to say. I departed from Jennifer’s to places further south. I will eventually end up in Florida.
6/15–Where I am staying at this motel, many Amish go in their horse and buggy down this road right in front. Nice to hear the clip-clop as the horses go by.
Today is Father’s Day in 2025. I’ve heard nothing from any of my three daughters, which is very upsetting. I will let you know if I hear from anyone. Jasmine did call; it was nice to hear her voice.
6/16–I am in a room on an upper floor. Stairs can be hard for me to navigate, so since people left after staying over the weekend, I asked to move into a room on the street-level floor. This was a lot of carrying, but I got it done.
6/17–It’s very strange. I am always tired. Yes, I get limited sleep, but this seems worse than no sleep. I don’t know what to make of it or do about it. I used to have incredible energy to do everything needed, but it is even difficult to go out and go through three clubs.
6/18–Jasmine has set up for me to go to Florida soon. She says to fly down. I have more stuff to take and would rather drive, but I’m unsure what to do.
6/19–Went out to juggle on the grass today. My juggling is not advancing; that disturbs me. Makes it so I don’t want to practice ever.
Today, I heard from Jay Alvarez in New York City. He wants to take over the future publishing of my books. How exciting! He also said he could find someone to release a movie about my story. As you might know, others have shown interest, but nothing has ever gone through.
6/20–I continue hiding away in my Cherry Lane Inn hotel room. Next, I will go to Florida to start my new life.THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section about gardening in.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now.
But there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life.
You must look into it!
Because I am back on the road.
There will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
When I drove the van seven years ago,
I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
I may start that up in my van garden again.
You will find out, of course.START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!******************
ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>Start researching new places you can explore. Then, get out there and challenge yourself to make things happen.
******************
NEXT BLOG >>
YOU WILL DIE,
PREPARE NOW!
******************AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
June 20, 2025 - Posted by Kit
BLOG 328–Aiming Toward Excellence–A Habit!
“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 328–Aiming Toward Excellence–A Habit!
Don’t sleepwalk through life.
I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my zWords.
Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
*** I visited all the US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** In 2025, I met Jennifer. We are sooo happy together!
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is “now”—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRoBE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!********************
WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before your demise?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know a lot about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
I can give you more thoughts on how I can help you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
A NEW WORD DAILY!
Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
THINK — AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
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OPENING WORDS
I’m sorry to say that Jennifer and I did not work out.
A significant factor is that she has lived alone for many years, and it seems I don’t fit in.
I tried to love and help her as much as possible, but it didn’t work.
I will always have a special love for the wonderful lady.
Her cats, Oreo and Biscuit, are a joy. They can roam the house and the outside patio, and they are so fun to watch. They are also quiet as they prance around, making them great hosts for the home. I’m glad they are here to love and be with Jennifer.
Still having no car, Jennifer will drop me off at
https://www.hotels.com/ho458564/cherry-lane-motor-inn-ronks-united-states-of-america/
Looks like a comfortable place.
Eventually, I will be at a rehab place in Florida, which will help with my juggling and balance, both of which are at a low level now. Once there, I will work extra hard to lose 30 pounds and get in good shape.MAKE THE PRESENT MOMENT EXCELLENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
BLOG 328–Aim Toward Excellence–A Habit!
Always a choice:
To Aim for Excellence!
Or
To Aim for Mediocrity.
Which do you choose?
Aiming for excellence means setting high standards, consistently striving to achieve them, embracing continuous improvement, and committing to quality. If you do this, things can only get better for your life. And, whatever your status or ability in life, you can always aim for better and better.GREATNESS, MERIT, PERFECTION, PURITY, QUALITY, SUPREMACY.
It’s about going beyond meeting expectations and pushing yourself to achieve the best possible results. I do this with goals I have, my juggling and salsa, writing this blog is another example. You must recognize that true excellence involves acknowledging and learning from mistakes (Drops?) You can (and must) do this in all areas of your life.
Excellence means greatness—doing the best. Achieving excellence is never easy, but people really appreciate it because it’s so hard to find. Excellence is the quality of excelling and being the best at something.
It’s not enough to be good; you must drive for excellence! To achieve a significant stride in success, you have to be excellent in what you do. Whatever field, career, vocation, or profession you enter, strive to be among the best, as you can. You will be highly sought after when you are good at your work.
Being good at what you do will place you in a position to make choices and not be selected. It allows you to meet people that ordinarily would be impossible for you to meet. Also, it will enable you to connect with other amazing people operating in the same framework.
So, what does it mean to aim for excellence?
How is it possible to achieve excellence?
How will you find your own expertise?
First, you must have a hunger for growth and be willing to commit yourself to continual learning throughout your life. Aiming for excellence means operating with an understanding that learning never stops. Every day is an opportunity to try new things and gain new knowledge.
It is refusing to dwell on the glories of past successes, as you achieve more. I have seen people whose past success has become their major stumbling block to growth. They can’t stop talking about it or making references to it. To them, it’s a feat only a few can attain. Memories of it alone give them satisfaction and a sense of accomplishment.
If you truly hunger for excellence, you will use your past successes as a benchmark. In other words, you’ll want to exceed your records. With this mindset, you will always be outstanding in anything you do. Your past should inspire you to do more and not stand in your way to grow further.
I think that is one of the reasons I gave up on juggling. Although I had achieved excellence in my juggling, I am going down other paths now. Learning a skill that I know so well did not present the success mentality that would help me.
Commit to excellence! Do those painful tasks, even if you do not feel like doing them. It means going the extra mile in whatever you do. It means paying attention to little details others would have taken for granted. It means staying up late to read a book, plan your next day, or even evaluate how you spent your time.
Anyone can meet up with targets, but a person driven by excellence goes the extra mile to surpass their expectations. The reality is that when you operate on the premise of just meeting expectations, you rarely succeed. But when you aim ahead, even if you fall short of your target, you wouldn’t miss your expected target. High achievers (like you!) set high standards for themselves, far above expectations.
Excellence requires patience, time, and drive. To attain excellence, you must be committed to continual learning and unlearning. You will constantly discover what you can and cannot do. You must understand that success comes not come overnight but through diligent and consistent efforts.
Many would look for excuses to justify their poor performance if things don’t go as planned. On the other hand, people who are driven by excellence acknowledge their shortcomings and critically examine what happened to ensure that it doesn’t happen again.
However, aiming for excellence doesn’t mean setting unrealistic goals, but easily attainable goals that build up. When your goals are unrealistic, deep inside you, it is obvious that you can never achieve them. With your lack of drive, they are doomed to fail from the outset, leaving you with no option but to find excuses to justify your inability to realize them.
On the other hand, when the goals are so easy to achieve, there is no challenge; as such, it will not amount to any growth. The victory that comes with such goals is cheap and does not in any way make you better. I would challenge myself to master juggling 7 clubs, for example.
To aim for excellence, you have to set high standards. You must understand that you are in no competition with anyone but yourself. Some people are satisfied when they are better than everyone else in their circle. You must aim for more!
For me, aiming for excellence is a mindset. With this mindset, the sky is not the limit. Instead, it is the starting point. It is a mindset of looking at your incredible successes and not allowing them to distract you from the greater heights you wish to attain.
It’s a mindset of striving to surpass your past records instead of boasting about them. With this mindset, nothing is impossible to achieve. In the end, aiming for excellence means thinking big. It’s going beyond ordinary to extraordinary.
Ambitious>>A strong desire to succeed or achieve something.
Determined>>Having a firm decision or purpose.
Driven>>Actively pursuing a goal with passion and energy.
Resilient>>Able to recover quickly from difficult conditions.
Visionary>>Having the ability to see what is not yet.
YOUR HOMEWORK–YOU FINISH WHAT EACH WORD SHOULD MEAN.
Achievement–
Attempt–
Battle–
Capability–
Completion–
Conclusion–
Creation–
Effort–
Endeavor–
Exercise–
Fulfillment–
Force–
Industry–
Performance–
Power–
Production–
Proficiency–
Push–
Resolution–
Struggle–
Training–
Often, aiming for excellence takes more effort.
Yet, it is not much more effort! WELL WORTH IT.
Start today to direct your aim in the future.
Perhaps, like me, you went through a brain injury?
You can take what you are left with,
And make an outstanding life.
Aiming Toward Excellence Should Become a Habit! This emphasizes that continuous striving for improvement and high standards should be a regular part of your life, not just an occasional goal. It means consistently working towards excellence in all areas, rather than just attempting it now and then.
Aristotle famously stated, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act, but a habit.”.
This highlights that excellence is not achieved through a single act but through consistently cultivating virtuous behaviors and practices.
Striving toward excellence encourages the development of positive habits that can lead to success. For example, developing emotional intelligence, prioritizing good eating, or practicing effective time management can become habitual routines, contributing to overall well-being and achievement.
A habit of excellence fosters a mindset of continuous improvement, where individuals always seek to enhance their knowledge, expand their capabilities, and refine their skills. By consistently striving for excellence, you can unlock your full potential, achieve your aspirations, and experience greater fulfillment in your personal and professional lives.
Some examples of excellent habits include practicing active listening, being open to feedback, embracing challenges, and seeking growth opportunities. You must also learn to change with the changes.
Aiming for excellence should become a habit because it fosters continuous improvement, personal growth, and added success. As Aristotle described, this mindset is built through repeated actions and becomes a way of life. By consistently striving for excellence in all areas of your life, you can cultivate positive habits, achieve your goals, and reach beyond your potential.
Excellence is a habit” means that becoming excellent at something isn’t just about a significant action or a fleeting moment of brilliance. It’s about developing a consistent pattern of behaviors and choices that, over time, lead to outstanding performance. Essentially, it’s about making excellence a part of your routine, your way of thinking and behaving.
Excellence is about using your skills or fine-tuning those skills to your needs. Like me and jugglng, you have to practice, practice, practice to make this a success. You can find a way to create a daily routine incorporating a different skill for 21 days. After the first week, it will get easier. Do it!ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW!
MAKE THINGS FANTASTIC!*****************
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness, and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
READ
Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to real life. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work, and it’s next to impossible with your busy schedule. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things, helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
READ CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
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I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
“I’m a success today because I had a friend who believed in me,
and I didn’t have the heart to let him down.” Abraham Lincoln
“We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence,
therefore, is not an act. But a habit.” Aristotle
“The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step.” Lao Tzu
“Think of many things, do one.” Portuguese proverb
“If you think you’re too small to have an impact,
try going to bed with a mosquito.” Anita Roddick
“If you have time to whine,
then you have time to find a solution.” Dee Dee Artner
“Quality means doing it right when no one is looking.” Henry Ford
“The most effective way to do it is to do it.” Amelia Earhart
“I am not a product of my circumstances.
I am a product of my decisions.” Stephen Covey
“You can have results or excuses.
Not both.” Arnold Schwarzenegger
“You always have two choices:
commitment versus fear.”
Sammy Davis Jr
“Chains of habit are too light to be felt until they are too heavy to be broken.” Warren Buffett
“You will never change your life until you change something you do daily.
The secret of your success is found in your daily routine.” John C. Maxwell
“How wonderful is that nobody needs to wait a single moment before starting to improve the world. “ Anne Frank
“Define success on your terms,
achieve it by your own rules,
and build a life you’re proud to live.”
Anne Sweeney
“You can do anything,
but not everything.
Prioritize better.” David Allen
“Progress has little to do with speed,
but much to do with direction.” Timber Hawkeye
“Start where you are.
Use what you have.
Do what you can.”
Arthur Ashe
“You have the power on your mind, not outside events.
Realize this, and you will find strength.” Marcus Aurelius
“Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into visible.” Tony RobbinsYOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!********************
MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Do you know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day, each moment!
6/7–I very much miss my van. It’s strange not to have any wheels and to depend on others for rides (thanks, Jennifer).
6/8–In the evening this Sunday, we attended a church service for mainly pastors and people high up in the church. It seemed like every other church service I had been to had the same structure. There was a collection of money, too, and I did not know who it could have gone to.
Jennifer wants me to believe so much.
My mind says, “You can’t lie to yourself.”
6/9—Jennifer and I went to a local park with many roses. It was so lovely there. My sniffer does not work well, but I could smell some fragrance. Being so close, Jennifer did not even know about this area. We saw some beautiful places.
This Dogwood tree is right outside Jennifer’s back patio.
You can see that anyone can find beauty wherever they are.
Find the beauty in your area now.
6/10–It’s a bright, sunny day—lovely. Today, I heard from Mark, who is helping to set me up at a therapy place in Florida.
Things are moving quickly, and I should be in soon. I like Florida, and I hope for a good visit.
I expect to undergo advanced programs to help me manage my time and balance. However, I also want to give back, so I will work hard with the patients and medical staff.
6/11–Working on my writing skills to start the day–Is it working?
Nothing significant occurred today, and there is nothing to write about.
How was your day today?
QUACK!
6/12, 13–It seems lawn mowers and tractors make daily noise.
There is almost too much noise coming in.
On the barbecue, we cooked potatoes, chicken, and corn.
For the corn, I learned a long time ago to throw the whole ear on, with husk on.
The taste is the BEST ear of corn I have ever had.
Try it, you will be amazed.
I will be leaving Jennifer’s tomorrow. It is always hard for me to move on from where I am.THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section about gardening in.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now.
But there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life.
You must look into it!
Because I am back on the road.
There will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
When I drove the van seven years ago,
I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
I may start that up in my van garden again.
You will find out, of course.START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!******************
ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
Pick some areas that you need to improve on.
Aim for excellence in those areas.
Make it a habit.
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NEXT BLOG >>
Say YES to new adventures!
**************AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
June 13, 2025 - Posted by Kit
BLOG 327–STOP!
“KITTING AROUND”
BLOG 327–STOP!
Don’t sleepwalk through life.
I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my zWords.
Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!*** A world-class juggler/performer.
*** The value that every moment has.
*** Only YOU know what is best for you.
*** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
*** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
*** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
*** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
*** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
*** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
*** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
*** What do you want to accomplish before you die?
*** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
*** I visited all the US national parks and met Beth.
*** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
*** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
*** What are you genuinely passionate about?
*** What do you want to accomplish?
*** You cannot change the past.
*** In 2025, I met Jennifer. We are sooo happy together!
*** Remember, the future will come.
*** All you have is “now”—ALWAYS!
*** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRoBE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!********************
WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
Are you accomplishing what you want before your demise?
These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
You can (and should) make changes to improve your life at every age.
Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
MY EXPERIENCES
You already know a lot about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
I can give you more thoughts on how I can help you.
I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
Remember — only you know what is best for you.
And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
Learn a New Word Every Day!
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OPENING WORDS
My time with Jennifer has been fantastic, but she may not be able to handle my future needs. We put the relationship to bed for now. I had just discovered what a wonderful lady she truly is. I hope she visits me in Florida; her dad lives there. Sadly, it seems like Kit will stay solo in his life.
Here are my plans >>
First, they (Jasmine and April, my daughters),
help me immensely with this new direction for my life.
We are looking at Siesta Key >>
https://locations.sevitahealth.com/united-states/fl/sarasota/neurorestorative-siesta-key/545
I will go there to live and keep advancing as I write my blog to improve your future.- They (my daughters) are looking for somewhere for me to stay until we find a place in Florida.
- They will help me get down there.
- They, and Greg, will secure me a place to live.
- Intense therapy to help with my balance and juggling.
- Help others get better as I get better.
- Get help with my dysphagia.
- Run and train daily to get this body back in shape.
- Get my teeth worked on to get them back.
- Planning to get my inspirational speaking going again from there.
- After getting a bike there, I will return to my bicycling (and unicycling!)
Thanks for this quote about my last blog, Larry >>
“Brilliantly written!
Everyone should read it!!!”
Larry ZeigerEMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT!
BLOG 327–STOP
You have control of what you say and do.
Before you put it all out there–STOP to think first!
YOU can control how you communicate with people.
STOP!1) Stop overthinking.
2) Stop blaming others.
3) Stop regretting the past.
4) Stop worrying about the future.
5) Stop comparing your life to others.
6) Stop waiting for perfect conditions.
7) Stop looking for happiness in others.
NONE OF THESE SHOULD BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE!
“Stop” can have an impactful and inspiring meaning depending on how it’s used. It can represent pausing to think, taking a break, or even stopping to actively pursue a different direction. STOP is mainly about taking the time to think things through first.
Life is similar to a bus ride.
The journey begins when we jump on the bus.
We meet people along the way–strangers, friends, and future friends.
There are stops at intervals, and people get on the bus.
At times, some of these people make their presence felt.
Some impact us through their grace and beauty.
Some remain indifferent.
You are in charge of your bus and where it goes.
Meet people, they are bound to become your friends.
How does this apply to children? Let me ask you this: When was the last time you told a child to “breathe” when they were upset, and how did they do?
While we can invite children to use their preferred strategies, most of the time, when emotions are running high, they have “flipped their lids”. Their brain, commonly known as the “upstairs brain,” is responsible for problem-solving, impulse control, and emotion regulation, but becomes effectively offline, having been hijacked by the “downstairs brain.”
The primitive downstairs brain is the “act before thinking” team. The downstairs limbic system involves memory, emotion, and the stress response. One of its main jobs is keeping us safe!
Thinking first may be unsafe unless our upstairs brain can give it the “all-clear.” But the upstairs brain of a child or adolescent is still under construction (even up to their 20s!). The downstairs brain reacts first, especially when communication with the upstairs brain isn’t strong enough.
Herein lies the problem. As psychologists and educators, we often recommend something many children can’t yet do—STOP and think. We teach kids to “stop and think” before engaging in an unhelpful or inappropriate response, such as hitting someone or saying something hurtful.
However, their “act without thinking” mind takes charge when their emotions run high. Simply telling them first to stop and think is asking them to use a tool that has gone offline. You must teach them how to learn.
But then some people need to make an exit, to get down and walk the paths they were destined to. If people always made an entrance and never left, for better or worse, it would be a disaster. Then we would feel suffocated and confused like those people on the bus. The purpose of the journey would lose its essence, and the journey altogether would neither be worthwhile nor smooth.
HERE ARE SOME “GOOD” REASONS TO “STOP” >>
“Stop to smell the roses.”
“Stop to listen to your heart.”
“Stop being afraid and start living!”
“Stop the endless cycle–break free.”
“Stop and think about what matters.”
“Stop and look at the world around you.”
“Stop the negativity, embrace the positive.”
“Stop making excuses and start taking action.”
“Stop and allow yourself to feel, to be human.”
“Stop looking back–look forward to your future!”
“Stop for a moment–take a deep breath–recharge.”
“Stop the relentless pursuit and give yourself a break.”
“Stop letting fear control you; you are in charge of your life.”
OTHER WORDS FOR STOP >>
Bose, drop, end, halt, hold, kill, pause, stall, stand, stay, breathing space, halt, hesitation, hiatus, hitch, interlude, intermission, interruption, interval, lapse, layoff, letup, lull, recess, respite, stoppage, suspension. Which do you use?
Control when you use or act on the word, “STOP.”
When you do this, you will begin to control your brain.ALL YOU HAVE IS NOW!
MAKE THINGS FANTASTIC!*****************
WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness, as well as finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
READ
Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
THE BURST!
Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
BE POSITIVE!
Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to real life. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
“YOU”
Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work, and it’s next to impossible with your busy schedule. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
QUOTES
Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.
QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
PEARLS OF WISDOM
In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
The correct motivational quote can change you and things, helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
THESE QUOTES
When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
EAD CAREFULLY
These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
Use them to your advantage!
============
I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
This week’s blog focuses on perseverance, not giving up, and the value of continuous effort going beyond STOP. The quotes below encourage staying focused on goals and not letting setbacks hinder your progress. They emphasize the power of constant learning and striving for personal growth.
Inspirational quotes about “stop” often highlight the importance of perseverance, not giving up, and finding meaning in the journey, even in these challenging times. They emphasize that stopping can be a sign of weakness and that staying focused and determined is key to success.
“You can’t stop the future
You can’t rewind the past
The only way to learn the secret
…is to press play.”
― Jay Asher
“Slow down in your life!
You will keep yourself happier!”
― Kit Summers
“Never stop just because you feel defeated.
The journey to the other side is attainable only after great suffering.”
― Santosh Kalwar
“If you quit on the process, you are quitting on the result.”
― Idowu Koyenikan
“All shadows of clouds the sun cannot hide
like the moon cannot stop the oceanic tide;
But a hidden star can still be smiling
at night’s black spell on darkness, beguiling”
― Munia Khan
“I fear being alone more than anything else.
So why do I do this?
Why do I push away the people I love?
What is so very wrong with me?
I don’t know.
And I don’t know how to make it stop.”
― Victoria Aveyard
“All shadows of clouds the sun cannot hide
like the moon cannot stop the oceanic tide;
But a hidden star can still be smiling
at night’s black spell on darkness, beguiling”
― Munia Khan
“Wonder is the heaviest element on the periodic table.
Even a tiny fleck of it stops time.”
― Diane Ackerman
“Nothing else you want to do after all your dreams come true.
You’ve become numb. You shouldn’t have ever stopped dreaming.”
― Toba Beta
“When people want to be liked for what they did,
They should stop.”
― Karl Lagerfeld
“The heart apparently doesn’t stop that easily.”
― Haruki Murakami
“I fear being alone more than anything else.
So why do I do this?
Why do I push away the people I love?
What is so very wrong with me?
I don’t know.
And I don’t know how to make it stop.”
― Victoria Aveyard,
“All shadows of clouds the sun cannot hide.
Like the moon cannot stop the oceanic tide;
But a hidden star can still be smiling.
Night’s black spell on darkness, beguiling”
― Munia Khan
“When people want to be liked for what they did, they should stop.”
– Goodreads
“Problems are not stop signs, they are guidelines.”
― Robert H. Schuller
“Stop.
Revive.
Survive”
― Melina Marchetta
“Wonder is the heaviest element on the periodic table.
Even a tiny fleck of it stops time.”
― Diane Ackerman
“Never stop just because you feel defeated.
The journey to the other side is attainable only after great suffering.”
― Santosh Kalwar,
“Success consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm.”
― Winston Churchill
“Ever tried?
Ever failed.
No matter.
Try again.
Fail again.
Fail better.”
– Samuel Beckett―
“It does not matter how slowly you go as long as you do not stop.”
Confucius.
“Never stop fighting until you arrive at your destined place.”
― A. P. J. Abdul Kalam
“Never stop just because you feel defeated.”
― Goodreads
“If you quit on the process, you are quitting on the result.”
― Goodreads
“Sometimes strength is knowing when to stop.”
― Pinterest
“The main thing is never quit, never quit, never quit.”
― BrainyQuote
“We don’t stop playing because we grow old; we grow old because we stop playing.” – George Bernard Shaw.
“When people want to be liked for what they did, they should stop.”
― Karl Lagerfeld
“And I was having too much fun to stop now.”
― Jeff Lindsay
“The heart doesn’t stop that easily.”
― Haruki Murakami,YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!********************
MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
Each week goes by so quickly.
It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
Do you know what you did last Monday?
Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day, each moment!
5/30–The hospital today for a visit. For a week now, my left leg has been aching. Scared, I went to a local hospital to find out what it was. Every step was painful. I discovered it was a Hematoma, when your blood collects somewhere on your body. I had never experienced this until now.
Strange to be at a hospital and have this happen. Some years ago, I would get something stuck in my throat, and it would not go down, would not come up. It was just stuck there. Surgery was necessary to clear this up. I was told that it was an allergy.
For the dilation surgery, first, I go under anesthesia and I am kept asleep. This procedure involves inserting a tube into my esophagus and then inflating it. The throat holds this change, and I can swallow easily.
I’ve had this surgery done twice in the past, so it seems like it is time again. Here are the legalities >>
Esophageal dilation. Dilation involves placing an endoscope into the esophagus and inflating an attached balloon to stretch it.
It was a long wait in the hospital. I saw a semi-doctor who knew of my leg problem. She suggested I let it heal independently, which I am doing. Jennifer had to wait a lot, too, so she drove around and went to the store while waiting. I thank her so much for her help.
5/31--Two hours of sleep last night. I wonder how I would be if I could get enough sleep. In my mind, sleep has always seemed a waste of time, but I know it is necessary.
MISSION IMPOSSIBLE-The Final Reckoning
This Saturday afternoon, we were in a huge movie theater with just a few people. Tom Cruise starred as the iconic Ethan Hunt. This movie takes the franchise to new heights with a gripping storyline, good music, breathtaking stunts, and high-stakes espionage.
You get pulled right in. The film grabs your attention with intense action sequences and suspenseful moments that never disappoint. Tom Cruise proves again why he is one of the greatest action stars of our time. His dedication to performing stunts adds an authentic thrill that sets this movie apart from other typical action films.
The plot revolves around a potent new threat in the form of a rogue AI, forcing Hunt and his team to make impossible choices for the greater good. With global stakes, emotional dilemmas, and complex twists, the story keeps the audience engaged throughout its run.
Visually, the cinematography is incredible, with exotic locations, beautifully choreographed fight scenes, and jaw-dropping set pieces. The supporting cast, including Rebecca Ferguson, Ving Rhames, and Simon Pegg, delivers solid performances, adding depth and humor to the intense dramatic movie.
The film ends with an episode of a serial drama that leaves the audience in suspense. While setting the stage for a future movie still feels satisfying as a complete cinematic experience. The pacing is tight, the music is exhilarating, and the stakes are higher than ever.
If you can go to this movie, do; you will love it.
6/1–It’s Sunday, so off we go to church. As you might know, I have never believed. It is interesting to see the social structure of Sundays, and it’s always great to see the passionate people attending. I’ve been to religious services all around the world.
Most religious services are similar. People enter, and most try to sit in the back (how terrible. I always sit up front to get the most out of whatever it might be.) Then there is singing. Next, a holy person comes out to give a talk.
Then, the money is collected. Many churches require people to give as much as they can, which they do. This just doesn’t seem right to me. I have studied and have yet to find rational and realistic proof for any God. I went with Jennifer to church, first to spend time with her, which I love, and also to see a new church.
I have a simple, single question that believers cannot answer — can you >>
“Please give your ONE BEST reasonable and rational proof for your god.”
Then I ask them, “Tell me why I should believe in said god”.
Can you do it? Please place your answer here.
Next, Jennifer took us to a late breakfast at a hectic diner.
Humm, come to think of it, I’ve never had dinner at a diner, have you?
6/2–Preparing to head down south to Florida.
I will miss Jennifer very much; I hope she comes to visit.
6/3–I slept until about 4 am. That’s a late sleep for me, it’s a good thing. While I am working on this blog, Jennifer is out on the patio in a conference call about her business selling health insurance.
I had a conference call with Mark, who represents NeuroRestorative>>
https://locations.sevitahealth.com/united-states/fl/sarasota/neurorestorative-siesta-key/545
Greg, with Selective Insurance Company, and my two daughters, Jasmine and April, were also on the call. We are setting up for me to be at this place to help improve my juggling, balance, and overall life—if I can get in. I will find out the status within the week and, of course, let you know.
6/4–It’s a clear, beautiful day. I hope yours is as lovely. Jennifer and I just looked at my left leg, which is not good. Yet the pain is down substantially. If I were to start exercising (running), it would help. Jennifer and I plan to go out later for a long run/walk. Are you putting time into exercise for yourself?THE EARTH IS A BEAUTIFUL PLACE TO LIVE, DON’T YA THINK?
It turned out to be a pretty warm day and a delight.
We sat and talked on the deck for a long time. She fears what might be coming (Jesus, that is). Of course, I did not think the same way. That is the main reason Jennifer will not be with me. She believes what we do as we come together is against God and the Bible.
6/5–I woke up at 3 a.m., as usual. It’s a hot day today, but no air conditioning is yet. I was in the garage this morning working on my juggling. It’s about the same as it’s been—not very good. This is just another significant loss I’ve had in my life—I’ve had so many.
I recently had to change banks to PNC. I paid off one of my credit cards and owe nothing. That’s a good feeling.
My left leg is hurting so much, and it seems healing.
6/6–Hard right now as it comes to Jennier. I am under the impression that she does not want me at all, which makes me want to cry. You will hear more in a future post.THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!
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THE GARDEN THIS WEEK
I keep this section about gardening in.
I do like the skill and hope you do, too.
Winter is here now.
But there are still things you can grow.
And remember about indoor gardening.
A self-supporting life can be a better life.
A garden would be a part of that life.
You must look into it!
Because I am back on the road.
There will be no more words about the garden.
I do hope Beth keeps it up.
We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
When I drove the van seven years ago,
I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
I may start that up in my van garden again.
You will find out, of course.START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!******************
ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
Learn to take control and stop when necessary.
Learn to control your mind, and you learn to control yourself.
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NEXT BLOG >>
AIMING TOWARD EXCELLENCE SHOULD BECOME A HABIT!
**************AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?
June 6, 2025