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  • BLOG 318–YES–YOU CAN JUGGLE!

     “KITTING AROUND”
    BLOG 318–YES–YOU CAN JUGGLE!
    Don’t sleepwalk through life.
    I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
    Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
    Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
    Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!

    *** A world-class juggler/performer.
    *** The value that every moment has.
    *** Only YOU know what is best for you.
    *** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
    *** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
    *** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
    *** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
    *** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
    *** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
    *** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
    *** What do you want to accomplish before you die? 
    *** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
    *** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
    *** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
    *** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
    *** What are you genuinely passionate about?
    *** What do you want to accomplish?
    *** You cannot change the past.
    *** Remember, the future will come.
    *** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
    *** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo 

    BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
    ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!

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    WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
    I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
         
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
    Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
    These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
    You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age.
    Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
    Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
    We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
             
    MY EXPERIENCES
    You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
    My views can provide you with additional thoughts to help you.
    I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
    Remember — only you know what is best for you.
    And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
         
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    YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
    THINK  —  AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
    WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE? 

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    OPENING WORDS
    I just read an article about the “elderly.”
    woman (the paper wrote) who had her Tesla attacked.
    Later, the article said she was “61 years old.
    Me–being 66–am I elderly?
    I never thought of myself as “elderly.”
    That’s scary.
         
    A lady who looks old is living in the room next to me.
    I discovered that Cindy is 62 years old.
    I’m 66; do I look the part?
       
    I’m even all right about my limited sleep. I still function fine, even with just a few hours of sleep at night. I find that I am going through an odd time. I’m here about affecting change.
       
    In my last blog, I wrote about how I did not like life, ready for death I was.
    But, recently, I wrote that I wanted to surpass the age of 100.
    I am unsure; I think I’ll stay around for a while.
         
    I did hear from people.
    It made me change my thinking.
    You will see a different blog.
       
    I read your blog every week !!
    I hope life gets easier for you soon …
    Don’t stop writing…
    Sharon Fodrovics
                     
    “Kit – I read all your blogs!
    You are one of the most
    inspirational people on the planet!
    Please keep them coming!!!”
    Your friend, Larry Zeiger
         
    “I read your blog every week, too, BUT…
    …if constructing a themed blog each week
    is too stressful, as it seems to be; just post
    when something significant changes in your life.”
    Ray Stern
         
    “I like to read different sections of the blog. I echo
    Ray. Post when you feel inspired to write some or
    something significant happens.”
    Kim Ranson
         
    “Why did Beth ask you to leave?
    Please ask her why she did this and let me know.
    What on earth was her reasoning?
    You seemed so happy together, but it’s really sad.”
    Love and Light–Jessica Taylor
         
    I hoped to hear from more people,
    but that was enough for me to continue
    publishing my blog posts.
       
    Even with the troubles I’ve been experiencing, I can still live the life that I want. I have no regrets about anything that has occurred in my life. Overall, I have had an excellent life and am quite pleased with it.
       
    BUT>>
    I’ve been reduced to eight boxes holding what I have left.
    I lived in a three-story house, got rid of stuff and moved into my van.
    Then, after I crashed my van, I left a lot.
             
    Often, I have much sadness and anger, and I am not sure what to do.
    At this point, I don’t even care if I die.
    In the past, I’ve had great times in my life.
    That was long ago and far away.
    Should I even post when I feel this miserable?
         
    I’ve figured out why I have been so sad and damaged currently.
    All my life, I have had goals for the future—projects to look forward to.
    Right now, I have nothing.
           
    For each of the following, I went for excellence.
    This is something that many do not aim for; what a loss.
    Aim toward excellence, and you’ll get that.
         
    Here are some of my goals >>
    1) Juggling has been a big part of my life since age 15. I aimed for excellence.
    2) I juggled 7 clubs, a world record at the time. I got over fifty throws with the 7.
    3)  I went through a 37-day coma and came through alright.
    4) I married Mary Ellen, 23 years of marriage, and we raised our daughters, Jasmine and April.
    5) Hundreds of schools across the US had me present my inspirational/entertaining program.
    6) I developed my workshop to help jugglers improve.
        With the workshop, I went all over the US, to Europe three times,
        Japan three times, and Australia and New Zealand.
    7) I have written 15 books to help people advance over time.
        My book, Juggling with Finesse, sold over 25,000 copies worldwide.
    8) I developed a fresh salsa that people love — I sold thousands!
        See https://sites.google.com/site/summerssalsa/
    9) When traveling, I would go to libraries to get online and plugins.
        Beth worked at the McCormick, SC library, where we met.
        We fell in love, married, and had a good life together.
        One day, Beth said she wanted me gone, and sadly, I left.
        She does not communicate with me, and I don’t know why she changed.
        I’ve been alone and do not like life without Beth.
    10) I lived in my van and traveled all over the US.
        Going to every state and every national park.
    11) I have published my weekly blog for years to help people.
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    BLOG 318–I have written about juggling and how to do it in the past. Since I have many new readers, I had to write about the subject again so new people can juggle. Learn the skill; there are many benefits.
         
    Juggling offers many benefits for the mind and body, including improved hand-eye coordination, motor skills, concentration, focus, and brain development. It is also a fun and portable form of exercise.
       
    Juggling is an excellent exercise for the mind and body. It is a total mind-body workout, and from my experience, you are working virtually every upper body muscle, from the reaching and throwing motion to bending down and picking up the props you drop (if you drop, that is.)
     
    Do you juggle? There’s a nice uniformity to the idea that about 70% of people are surprised that only about 30% of people can juggle! Juggling is as good an exercise as running or lifting weights. While there’s no definitive data on the exact percentage of people who can juggle, estimates suggest that only around 21% can. And this exercise is great fun!
         
    Jugglers tend to be predominantly investigative, which means they are pretty inquisitive and often like to spend time alone with their thoughts, as I have. Jugglers also tend to be social, meaning we thrive in situations where we can interact, persuade, or help people.
         
    Juggling works wonders for our critical thinking skills. Juggling is a soothing, methodical, organized activity for the brain. “This soothes, focuses, and slows the brain down to look at and focus on small details and movements.
         
    I loved the skill of juggling and its daily improvement. Some days, I would be in the gym for 12 hours, then be impatient for the next day when I could do it again. Juggling is a physical skill involving manipulating objects for recreation, entertainment, or sport.
         
    Based on this evidence, as a dual-task activity, bimanual juggling may effectively integrate brain areas to improve neuroplasticity.  Consistent practice is key. To get your first 10 throws while juggling, you should expect to practice about 30-60 minutes daily for about a week. Some people may progress more quickly. Others may take several months to achieve their first 10 juggles.
       
    In the accident and 37-day coma I went through, I believe my ability to juggle helped me come back fully.
     
    You can apply the same principles to learning juggling to motivate yourself to succeed. With juggling, you will exercise and improve your mental and physical alertness, coordination, reflexes, and self-confidence. Juggling is good for working out and relaxing. You get good exercise by bending down to pick up a dropped prop.
           
    A half-hour of juggling versus a half-hour of exercising-–the results are the same; the difference is that juggling will also exercise your mind.  It will give you an alert body and a calm mind. Also, juggling is good eye-hand coordination training for every sport. Most of all–Juggling is great fun !!  Young people (as well as older folks) love learning to juggle (yes, YOU!)
       
    Juggling offers numerous benefits for the mind and body, including improved hand-eye coordination, motor skills, focus, concentration, and brain development. It is also a fun and portable form of exercise. Juggling has been shown to help fight depression, PTSD, and other serious problems.
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    Basic Juggling Skills: The Cascade with 3 balls is often the most common pattern people use when juggling. Ensure you can maintain this pattern for much longer than it would take to run/jog the distance you want to cover.
         
    Jugglers have told me that juggling with scarves is not juggling; it is more of a manipulation of the scarves. So, I see their point. Although it will teach someone the basic cascade, later can be done with other objects like balls, clubs (and machetes.)
         
    Don’t just think about juggling — do it!
    You can learn this skill — no matter how old you are!
    Or even if you have gone through a brain injury!

    It is the cheapest and easiest to make your own scarves.
    Buy Toole material and cut 18-inch squares to juggle with, these are easy to juggle >>
    https://www.amazon.com/s?k=toole&crid=2NT54N0OW6HRB&sprefix=%2Caps%2C177&ref=nb_sb_ss_recent_2_0_recent
    Walmart also sells this material.
         
    I’ve taught thousands to juggle with scarves. Because they are lightweight, they float in the air and are easier to manipulate. Watch this video to see someone juggling scarves >>
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YtYA220zcfc&t=64s
           
    One Scarf
    To get the feel of the scarf, throw it up and catch it. Play with it to get used to it. Now throw the scarf under the leg, behind the back. Next, keep it in the air by blowing it up with your mouth.
       
    Hold one scarf by the center, not by a corner, with your palm down (for scarf juggling, you always keep your palm down.) Lift your arm as high as you can toward the opposite shoulder. When the hand reaches the peak, release the scarf, palm out, like you are waving goodbye. Reach high with the other hand and grab down on the scarf as it reaches chest high.
       
    Do the same thing in the other direction.
    Now repeat this pattern, right-left-right-left, slowly. Relax, and don’t go too fast.
    The pattern is like a sideways figure 8.
         
    Two Scarves
    Once again, play with the scarves to get the feel for the 2.  Now throw the scarves up, side by side at the same time, and clap, then up and clap twice, up and clap under the leg, up and behind the back.  The next step is to throw them up and clap four times–in front, under the leg, behind the back, then in front again.  This can be very fun for the kids.
       
    Now for two-scarf juggling. As we just worked on with one scarf, bring one scarf high above the opposite shoulder and release it. When the first scarf is at its highest point and starts to fall, lift it in the other hand in the same manner and at the same height toward the opposite shoulder. The second scarf will pass underneath the first throw.
     
    Change the starting hand each time.  First, throw right-left and stop, then left-right and stop, then right-left and stop, and so on.  What you do is throw, throw, catch, catch, then do the other side.
         
    Next, hold one scarf with the little finger and, in the same hand, hold one scarf with the thumb and index finger. This will give you two scarves in one hand, the starting position for juggling. This is the starting position for your juggling pattern. Always start with the hand that has two. 
         
    Lift the hand holding two scarves up to let go of one scarf toward the opposite shoulder.  Release the scarf held with the fingertips and grab down on it with the other hand to catch it. 
       
    3 Scarf Juggling!
    Hold two scarves in one hand like we just worked on; have one in your other hand.  For juggling, always start with the hand holding two and just release one.  When the first scarf gets to the top, lift the second scarf, which is the same height, with the other hand. As your hand comes down from releasing the second scarf, it will catch the first.
       
    The pattern goes: THROW (with the first hand), then THROW, CATCH (with the second hand), and then THROW, CATCH with the other hand, back and forth. Remember, the hand that the scarf is coming to you will throw with next.

    NOW YOU ARE JUGGLING!!

     3 Scarf Tricks
    First, make sure you can juggle 3 scarves. Juggle 2 scarves in one hand.  The pattern should have the scarves going straight up and down beside each other. Count the throws to judge progress. Now, with the hand that wasn’t throwing the 2, throw a scarf in so it goes straight up and down along with the 2 in the first hand. So, you are throwing 1 up, then 2 up, then 1 up, then 2 up. The scarves will go up and down in columns. Search YouTube for other scarf tricks you can learn.
          

    Ball juggling
       
    1 ball
    It is best to be standing so you can maneuver well to catch the ball.  Have one ball to begin with.  For example, like with scarves, have them do various tricks to get used to the balls, such as throwing under the leg, behind the back, over the head, etc.
         
    Work on throwing the ball from hand to hand, about 3 inches above the head.  Your vision should be kept high, and you should look at the peak points of the throws.  As you throw the ball from hand to hand, throw from the inside and catch on the outside.
         
    2 balls
    Start with one ball in each hand. Throw the left-hand ball up to head height towards the right-hand side. As the ball reaches its apex and comes down towards your right hand, throw the ball you are still holding before you catch it, and then see the first ball.
       
    Next, please take a look at the second ball in your left hand.  The important thing here is to make sure you throw the second ball the right way. Throw it inside the first ball, i.e., closer to the center of your body.
     
    Don’t throw the second ball in front or behind the descending ball. People who end up doing this always have to juggle while walking forward to keep up with their balls. While being a good trick, it is not the ideal way to juggle. Important Note: One solution to the walking forward problem is to stand in front of a wall while juggling to keep you from moving.
       
    Something else to work on at this point is juggling 2 balls in one hand.  The balls should be thrown in a circle out from the center.  Working on 2 in one hand is suitable for working toward juggling a 3.
         
    3 balls
    Start with 2 balls in your right hand and one in your left. Throw one of the balls in your hand with the 2 balls precisely as before.  When it comes down, throw the ball in your left hand and catch the first ball, as before. As the second ball comes down, throw the third ball in your right hand precisely as before. Then, see the second ball in your right hand and the third final in your left. NOW YOU’RE JUGGLING 3 BALLS!!
       

    In this photo–Albert Lucas, Deena Frooman, Niels Duinker, and me, Kit

    My friend, Niels, can teach you to juggle >>
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x2_j6kMg1co

    3 Ball Tricks
    Ensure you juggle 3 balls for at least 10 throws before moving on. For example, with scarves, have students team up, with one using the left hand and the other using the right.  So, they do a cascade pattern between the two of them.  Also, please count their throws to judge progress.
       
    Over the top
    All you do for this one is instead of throwing a ball to the inside of the next ball coming down, you throw it on the outside, over the top of your juggling pattern. I’m still hoping to catch it the same way.
       
    Under the leg
    Initially, work on this with just 1 ball.  Throw the ball under your leg.  Lift up your leg, reach beneath your knee, and throw the ball up.  Either reach low or lift your leg high.  Ideally, the pattern of the balls should stay the same.
         
    Two in One Hand
    Just keep holding 1 ball in your left hand and juggle the other 2 in your right hand. The rhythm for this is the same as for 3-ball juggling. Work on 2 in one hand with either hand.
         
    Shower
    To juggle a 3 ball shower, you must first take 2 balls in your best hand and 1 in your weaker hand, throw the 2 in your best hand into the air quickly, then pass the ball in your weak hand into your best hand and throw it. You’d like to aim for a point above the catching hand. You should catch the first one about now and then repeat that process.  The throws should be about 3 feet above your head at first; then you can slowly lower that until you’re juggling a shower at about the top of your head – this is very fast at this height – this pattern can be juggled on both sides so make sure you practice both.
       
    Performance Time !!
    People love performing for family and friends, so they should enjoy this performance. You may even want to have refreshments available before the show. After the big show, have your students work with all the audience members and teach them to juggle.
       
    Search YouTube for learning many 3 ball tricks. 

    EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT! 

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    WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
    Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
         
    READ
    Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
         
    THE BURST!
    Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
       
    BE POSITIVE!
    Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
       
    “YOU”
    Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
       
    SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
    To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
       
    QUOTES
    Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.  
       
    QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
    Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
       
    PEARLS OF WISDOM
    In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
         
    WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
    The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
         
    THESE QUOTES
    When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
         
    READ CAREFULLY
    These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
    You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
    These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
    They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
    Use them to your advantage!
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    I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
    INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
       
    “Juggling and balancing effectively required that we make clear, legacy-driven choices about what we’re trying to keep in the air and how we sequence our movements down the beam. Because the ultimate grade in life is not based on how far and fast we’ve walked the beam or how many things we’ve juggled—it’s based on how much we’ve enjoyed the exercise.”
    ― Eric C. Sinoway
       
    “Get out there and dance.
    Throw some balls around and juggle.
    Life should be playtime.
    Don’t go through life and be too seriness.”
    ― Kit Summers
         
    “Life is a juggling act with your own emotions. The trick is always to keep something in your hand and something in the air.”
    ― Chloe Thurlow
         
    “In the 1950s, at least less was expected of women. Now we’re supposed to juggle a career, build a home, be the supermum every child deserves, the perfect wife, meet the demands of elderly parents, and still stay sane.”
    ― Sara Sheridan
     
    “The real magic is the hand around the bandsaw, the thrown spark in the powder keg, the dimension-warp linking you straight into the heart of a star, the flaming sword that burns down to the pommel. Sooner juggle torches in a tar pit than mess with real magic. Sooner lie down in front of a thousand elephants.”
    ― Terry Pratchett
         
    “…with a look on her face that said she had a lot of plates to juggle, but as long as you were prepared to be spun, everything would be fine.”
    ― Paul Cornell
         
    “Imagine life is a game in which you are juggling five balls. The balls are called work, family, health, friends, and integrity. And you’re keeping all of them in the air. But one day, you finally understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. The other four balls – family, health, friends, integrity – are made of glass. If you drop one of these, it will be irrevocably scuffed, nicked, perhaps even shattered. And once you truly understand the lesson of the five balls, you will have the beginnings of balance in your life.”
    ― James Patterson
       
    “Juggling is sometimes called the art of controlling patterns in time and space.”
    ― Carol Bartz
       
    “There are good and bad days,
    and this is one of them.”
    ― Ronald Graham
         
    “Juggling is an illusion. …
    In reality, the balls are independently caught and thrown in rapid succession. …
    It is task switching.”
    ― Lawrence Welk
       
    “I dropped my juggling balls, and my face grew embarrassed. It wasn’t until then that I looked around the circus of life and noted all were too consumed in their juggling act to see. This is when I learned to have fun and kick the balls instead.”
    ― Gary W. Keller
           
    “Your mind’s always juggling, isn’t it?-mirrors, torches, plates.”
    ― Stefanie Schneider
         
    “Communication is a continual balancing act, juggling the conflicting needs for intimacy and independence. To survive in the world, we must act in concert with others, but to survive as ourselves, rather than simply as cogs in a wheel, we must act alone.”
    ― Ray Bradbury
       
    “Work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. The other four balls – family, health, friends, integrity – are made of glass. If you drop one of these, it will be irrevocably scuffed, nicked, perhaps even shattered.”
    ― Deborah Tannen
       
    “My life is very complicated. I have a lot going on, and I am juggling many responsibilities. There is so much going on that it is astounding; it is.
    ― Gary W. Keller
         
    “Keep thy smooth words and juggling homilies for those who know thee not.”
    ― Michael Jackson
         
    “Juggling is very, very straightforward; very, very black and white; you’re manipulating objects, not people. And that’s always appealed to me.”
    ― Barbara Walters
         
    “All that counts is the truth.
    Without it, you’re just juggling
    people’s daft ideas.”
    ― Penn Jillette
           
    “Wit is often a mask. If you tear it, you will find either genius irritated or cleverness juggling.
    ― Jojo Moyes
         
    “The fact of the matter is, when I’m on tour, I’m juggling so hard to keep all the balls in the air that I don’t often get to enjoy what I’m out there doing.”
    ― Khalil Gibran

    YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
    YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
    COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
    YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
    YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
    WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!

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    MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>

    Each week goes by so quickly.
    It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
    You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
     
    Do you know what you did last Monday?
    Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
    You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
    Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!
       
    4/5–Stayed around my room, one room with a bathroom–at $1,000 a month.
    I just don’t know what to do right now.
       
    4/6–I slept until about 5 a.m. today. That’s an extended sleep for me. Perhaps things are getting better?
       
    Jasmine and April have helped me so much with all matters. This photo is Jasmine. 
    I feel so alone right now; I hate it.
             
    I want to live at least until the age of 100.
         
    4/7–I haven’t been for some time. I juggled today, and it went well.
         
    4/8–Hmm, now what did I do today? More important, what did you do today?
         
    4/9–Went to the dentist for a cleaning today. I did not take very good care of my teeth when I was young, but it’s coming back to me now. I was told that I should have all my lower teeth that are left pulled and then have a lower plate made. This gives me another reason I no longer want to live. I am not having fun and am just finding shit in my future.
       
    As I was driving, I said aloud, “I’m done” with life, that is.
    I’m sick of seeing double most of the time — it is awful.
           
    Right now, I am drinking a Kalua-type drink that I am enjoying. My mom, sister, and brothers were alcoholics; I said I would never be. Now I can see why. 
         
    4/10–Went to Costco today to pick up food and necessary items. The thing about Beth a lot, should I? Hard to keep my mind away from those thoughts.
         
    4/11–Volunteering today for https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2_SJtwn7oQs&t=9s
              Today I got big bags of bacon and divided those into smaller bags.
              Boy, we went through a lot of pig.
           

    THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

    ******************

    THE GARDEN THIS WEEK

    I keep this section about gardening in.
    I do like the skill and hope you do, too.

    Winter is here now.
    But there are still things you can grow.
    And remember about indoor gardening.
         
    A self-supporting life can be a better life.
    A garden would be a part of that life.
         
    You must look into it.
       
    Because I am back on the road.
    There will be no more words about the garden.
    I do hope Beth keeps it up.
    We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
       
    When I drove the van seven years ago,
    I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
    I may start that up in my van garden again.
    You will find out, of course.

    START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
    IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!

    ******************
    ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
    YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
    You now know how. Improve your juggling so you can juggle three balls for at least five minutes.
    If you can juggle, learn three tricks you have never tried.
    ******************
    NEXT BLOG >>
    Hmm, what’s that you’re eating?
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    AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?


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  • BLOG 317–CONFIDENCE!

     “KITTING AROUND”
    BLOG 317–CONFIDENCE!
    Don’t sleepwalk through life.
    I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
    Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
    Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
    Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!

    *** A world-class juggler/performer.                                                            Yes, the photo is me!
    *** The value that every moment has.
    *** Only YOU know what is best for you.
    *** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
    *** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
    *** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
    *** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
    *** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
    *** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
    *** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
    *** What do you want to accomplish before you die? 
    *** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
    *** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
    *** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
    *** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
    *** What are you genuinely passionate about?
    *** What do you want to accomplish?
    *** You cannot change the past.
    *** Remember, the future will come.
    *** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
    *** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo 

    BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
    ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!

    ********************
    WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
    I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
         
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
    Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
    These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
    You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age.
    Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
    Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
    We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
             
    MY EXPERIENCES
    You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
    My views can provide you with additional thoughts to help you.
    I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
    Remember — only you know what is best for you.
    And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
         
    Learn a New Word Every Day!
    Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/ 

    YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
    THINK  —  AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
    WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE? 

    ============================
    OPENING WORDS
    The past week has been difficult.
    I’m a man with no dreams and no hope.
    It’s been so long since I had fun in my life.
    I don’t know how to make things better.
    Hard to be confident right now with what is going on.
       
    Also, in the last couple of blog posts, I wrote about how I was hurting and the problems going on. I had expected to hear from some people, especially you, but I heard from no one. As a result, I do not see a reason to continue my blog. I hope I have added to some people’s lives with my words. Or was I wasting my time?
       
    About the blog I write (which you are now reading), I added to my blog posts while driving across the US a few times and from when I was in Australia, New Zealand, Japan, and Europe. I have written hundreds of words and many blogs.
       
    This life I am living now, I see nothing to live for.
    How about you? Would you miss my blog if I stopped posting?
    And, because I am not traveling, perhaps it will be no more blog posts.
         
    I am sad that Beth kicked me out of the house.
    We had such plans for our future together—now—nothing.
    And, of course, that accident with the van, which totaled it—
    no more traveling in my incredible van.
    It’s hard to write about confidence when your entire world is crashing down.
       
    Please let me know if you have read my blog posts.
    kitsummers@gmail.com is where to write me.
    How many replies I get will determine if I keep up with writing this blog.
    It’s up to you.
    Do you like my blog posts?
        ===================
    BLOG 317–Find Your Confidence!
       
    Like many of us, a lot has happened in the last several years that would deflate even the most confident. You’ve taken on a lot of new responsibilities, faced the unknown, had sickness and grief, and stayed home with all our people 24/7.
       
    As the world opens up, you may feel a little apprehensive, and unsureness is normal. For many of us, it’s time to change clothes, dust off that old workwear, and remember just how complicated your morning routine used to be; yes, change.
     
    I’ve found that the best way to develop confidence is to fake it. You will feel better about yourself and get more accomplished–other people will believe in you. So, next time you need confidence (or any attitude), fake it, you will be surprised at the outcome.
             
    Don’t forget that confidence is not a solo venture—it can be strengthened by investing in a genuine, healthy group. We can see ourselves fully in the shared experiences and friendships we have with others. If you’re hungry for more inspiration to take your life (and mood) to the next higher level, don’t miss out on others’ help. Keep friendships going.
       
    Confidence can be tricky to deal with. Worry and fear can quickly become overwhelming, but remembering that the future can’t be changed by worrying about it can be a grounding thought in trying times. Change your thought patterns.
           
    Confidence can be a wonderful thing. It allows us to move through life with poise, joyfulness, and self-assurance. With ake on challenges that might otherwise seem huge. And confidence is a fickle thing–some people seemingly have complete confidence–others lack confidence and can become self-conscious in their life.
               
    While low self-esteem is never good, a lack of continued confidence is not necessarily a negative. Some research suggests it can make you more successful by encouraging hard work, seeing all, self-reflection, and an openness to feedback. Learn, then move forward.
       
    We can recognize and celebrate courage with others, but it can also be an internal, day-to-day experience in ourselves. One of the most common ways we practice confidence is to pursue learning and personal growth. Research shows us that fear of failure can negatively correlate with courage, but what if it’s OK to make mistakes—learn from them—and they are welcomed learning tools?
       
    Here are questions to ask as you go forward >>
    What do I “stand for”?
    What do I value in myself?
    What is important to me?
    What are some of my successes
    What are some of my accomplishments?
          

    EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT! 

    *****************
    WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
    Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
         
    READ
    Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
         
    THE BURST!
    Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
     
    BE POSITIVE!
    Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
         
    “YOU”
    Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
       
    SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
    To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
     
    QUOTES
    Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.  
       
    QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
    Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
       
    PEARLS OF WISDOM
    In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
         
    WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
    The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
         
    THESE QUOTES
    When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
         
    READ CAREFULLY
    These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
    You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
    These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
    They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
    Use them to your advantage!
    ============
    I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
    INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
       
    “To overcome fear is the quickest way to gain your self-confidence.”―Roy T. Bennett
         
    “Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence.” ―Helen Keller
     
    “All you need in this life is ignorance and confidence, and success is sure.” ―Mark Twain
       
    “Kindness in words creates confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness. Kindness in giving creates love.” ―Lao Tzu
       
    “Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit at home and think about it. You can go out and get busy.” ―Dale Carnegie
         
    “Why should I care what other people think of me?”
    I am who I am. And who I wanna be.”―Avril Lavigne
         
    “Fear? What does a man have to do with fear?
    Chance rules our lives, and the future is all unknown.
    Best live as we may, from day to day.”―Sophocles
     
    “A diamond doesn’t start polished and shining.
    It once was nothing special.
    But it became spectacular with enough pressure and time.
    I’m that diamond.”―Solange Nicole
       
    “She remembered who she was,
    and the game changed.”―Lalah Delia
         
    “The key to life is accepting challenges.
    Once someone stops doing this, he’s dead.”―Bette Davis
             
    “The moment you doubt whether you can fly,
    you cease forever to be able to do it.”―J. M. Barrie
         
    “When you’re different.
    Sometimes, you don’t see the millions of people who accept you for who you are.                                          Is that Kit up there?
    All you notice is the person who doesn’t.”―Jodi Picoult
         
    “Believe you can, and you’re halfway there.”―Theodore Roosevelt
         
    “As soon as you trust yourself,
    you will know how to live.”
    ―Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
     
    “Once we believe in ourselves, we can risk curiosity, wonder,
    spontaneous delight, or any experience that reveals the human spirit”―EE Cummings
         
    “Knowing how to be solitary is central to the art of loving.
    When we can be alone, we can be with others without using them as a means of escape.”―Bell Hooks
       
    “Don’t waste your energy trying to change opinions …
    Do your thing, and don’t care if they like it.”―Tina Fey

    YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
    YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
    COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
    YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
    YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
    WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!

    ********************
    MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>

    Each week goes by so quickly.
    It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
    You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
     
    Do you know what you did last Monday?
    Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
    You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
    Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!
     
    3/29-4/3–Mainly I stayed in my hotel room and did little things. Not sure what it will take to get me going again, but it will happen.
           
    4/3–MY ANNIVERSARY! On this day, April 3, in 1982 I was hit by a truck and went through a 37-day coma. After I awoke I have to relearn everything physical. Take a look at this video to learn more >>
    Educational Entertainment with Kit Summers
       
    4/4–Not much today, sorry to say. 

    THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

    ******************

    THE GARDEN THIS WEEK

    I keep this section about gardening in.
    I do like the skill and hope you do, too.

    Winter is here now.
    But there are still things you can grow.
    And remember about indoor gardening.
         
    A self-supporting life can be a better life.
    A garden would be a part of that life.
         
    You must look into it.
       
    Because I am back on the road.
    There will be no more words about the garden.
    I do hope Beth keeps it up.
    We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
       
    When I drove the van seven years ago,
    I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
    I may start that up in my van garden again.
    You will find out, of course.

    START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
    IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!

    ******************
    ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
    YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
    Confidence is a habit. This week, develop your confidence more and more. As you will see, you can get much more accomplished as you add to your life and add to other’s lives, too.
    ******************
    NEXT BLOG >>
    Not sure what the next blog topic will be.
    I guess we will both learn next week.
    **************

    AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?


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  • BLOG 316–What About You?

    “KITTING AROUND”
    BLOG 316–What About You?
    Don’t sleepwalk through life.
    I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
    Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
    Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
    Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!

    *** A world-class juggler/performer.
    *** The value that every moment has.
    *** Only YOU know what is best for you.
    *** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
    *** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
    *** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
    *** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
    *** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
    *** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
    *** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
    *** What do you want to accomplish before you die? 
    *** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
    *** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
    *** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
    *** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
    *** What are you genuinely passionate about?
    *** What do you want to accomplish?
    *** You cannot change the past.
    *** Remember, the future will come.
    *** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
    *** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo 

    BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
    ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!

    ********************
    WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
    I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
         
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
    Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
    These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
    You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age.
    Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
    Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
    We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
               
    MY EXPERIENCES
    You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
    My views can provide you with additional thoughts to help you.
    I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
    Remember — only you know what is best for you.
    And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
         
    Learn a New Word Every Day!
    Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/ 

    YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
    THINK  —  AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
    WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE? 

    ============================
    OPENING WORDS
    I get 4 to 5 hours of sleep a night. I wish I could get more. When I am asleep, I can’t think about the life I am currently living. Perhaps I want to return and extend my 37-day coma?
       
    In my last blog, I wrote about many of my problems and how they hurt me. I expected to hear from someone, especially you, but I heard from no one, which makes me sad. Do you actually read my blog posts–anyone, anyone?
       
    Last night, Sun-Mon, I awoke at midnight. I have been awake since then and will not nap between now and sleepy time. At this point, I am just used to my sleep cycle.
     
    It’s nice that you continue to read my blog, Beth. I had promised Beth I would not write any more about her. But that is okay; at this point, she scares me. So, no more about Beth. Thinking about Beth now brings me to tears. I still love the woman, and I would love to be back with her (I think). Her silence is deafening.

    You sneeze, you hiccup, you cough, you blink, you breathe, you fart, you scratch an itch, you digest, your heart beats, your hair grows. These are just a few things your body does constantly without thinking. You will read more about this below.
            ===================
    BLOG 316–What About You?
    Here are some inspirational words about your body–focusing on resilience, strength, and gratitude. Your body is a testament to your journey in life, a masterpiece of resilience, and a source of endless hope and possibility. Embrace your body’s strength, honor its wisdom, and cherish its beauty.”
     
    People perform many actions without thought, including bodily functions like breathing and blinking, habits like brushing teeth or driving to work, and reactions to stimuli like pulling your hand away from a hot stove. Did you ever burp and fart at the same time?
       
    If your mind says,
    “I am important, I am big, I am special,”
    You will be disappointed when you look.
    See what we’ve discovered about the universe.
    No, you are not big.
    No, you are not small.
    All you have is your human body, which is limited on this Earth.
         
    The human body is not the person. Identity is how the brain operates: memories, sensory input, and output. The mind is you—you aren’t your work, accomplishments, possessions, home, family, or anything else. You are a creation of your parents—a physical human body intended to experience and enjoy life on Earth.
         
    Your human body has two ends: one to create with and one to sit on. Sometimes, people get their ends reversed. When this happens, they need a kick in the pants. Science has revealed that the human body contains millions and millions of atoms. That’s what you are made of.
         
    Here’s a breakdown of some things people do without thinking >>
       
    Breathing: The autonomic nervous system controls breathing. 
    A vital function we don’t consciously consider.
       
    Blinking: Our eyes blink automatically to keep them moist and clear.
         
    Digestion: Breaking down food happens automatically,
    without conscious effort.
         
    Heartbeat: Our heart beats continuously,
    a vital function we don’t consciously control.
       
    Circulate blood:
    The body circulates blood to deliver oxygen and nutrients.
       
    Sloughing off skin cells: is
    The body constantly sheds dead skin cells.
       
    Oxidizing carbohydrates inside the body:
    The body processes carbohydrates for energy.
       
    Sending white blood cells to the site of an invading bacteria:
    The body’s immune system responds automatically.
         
    Your human body is a beautiful,
    complicated collection of nerves,
    blood vessels, organs, muscles,
    and bones working together in
    intricate processes.
    Yes, I am talking about you!
       
    Though science has been able to explain many things about how our bodies work, specific anatomical quirks, including standard bodily functions, continue to astound us today.
         
    WHAT ARE GOOSEBUMPS?
    No, they have no relation to geese. The phenomenon of “goosebumps” is called that because the raised bumps on the skin, caused by hair follicles standing up, resemble the skin of a plucked goose.  Its name comes from its skin’s resemblance to that plucked bird.
         
    It is believed that this is an inherited trait from our prehistoric ancestors. They had thicker coats of body hair, which created insulation and kept their body warm when stimulated. While our layer of body hair is too thin to make a difference, the muscle contraction and increased electrical activity help stimulate the body, which is why goosebumps caused by the cold go away when you warm up.
       
    WHY DO WE FART?
    We fart (or experience flatulence) because our bodies naturally produce gas during digestion, which must be expelled, either through burping or farting. This gas is a byproduct of swallowing air, bacterial action on undigested food, and the typical food breakdown process  (for the average person–we fart 14-25 times a day!)
       
    Here are a more detailed explanations:
    Swallowed Air: When we eat and drink, we often swallow some air, which can accumulate in the digestive tract.
       
    Gas Production During Digestion: Bacteria in the large intestine breaks down undigested carbohydrates, releasing gases like hydrogen, methane, and carbon dioxide.
       
    WHY WISDOM TEETH?
    It doesn’t take wisdom to know this one. Wisdom teeth are just like any other molar in your mouth. For the first few years of a human’s life, we eat only soft foods and do not need molars to crush and grind. Around the age of six, the first set of molars come in. When a person reaches 12, another set appears. The wisdom teeth are the final molars between ages 18 and 21.
       
    Early humans were hunter-gatherers who survived on leaves, roots, meat, and nuts — things that required a lot of crushing ability. The more grinding teeth you have, the easier it is to eat tough foods. As humans evolved, they began to cook their food, making it softer and easier to chew. Having three complete sets of molars became unnecessary.
       
    WHY DO WE SNEEZE?
    Sneezing removes irritants like dirt, dust, and pollen from your nose or throat. It’s your body’s way of getting rid of things that can make you sick or cause inflammation. While sneezing can be inconvenient, it’s rarely a sign of a serious health condition.
         
    The primary purpose of a sneeze is straightforward — sneezes help to remove irritants from the nasal passage. These irritants include dust, dirt, pollen, smoke, or anything else that could get stuck there. Blowing it all out is the best way your body can clear it.
         
    Sometimes, sneezes come in pairs or more. Some people — maybe even you — have a specific number of sneezes that they produce each time. If someone sneezes three times, their sneeze might not be as powerful as a single sneezer’s, requiring three attempts to eliminate the irritant.
       
    Sneezing also plays a leading role in fighting the spread of bacteria when we’re sick. The body’s natural reaction to infection is to produce mucus to trap the bacteria. Once trapped, it’s time to get rid of it. Sneezing is the most efficient way to expel phlegm from the body. It’s also the most efficient way to spread bacteria, so remember to cover your mouth and nose.
       
    Even when there aren’t irritants or bacteria, your nose produces mucus to catch potential irritants before they can get to your lungs. Sometimes, the nasal passage gets too full through normal production and needs to reset. Whenever you get a random sneeze that seems out of nowhere, it’s most likely just to reset your nasal passage.
         
    WHY DO WE BLINK?
    The average person blinks about 12 times per minute, 10,000 times daily, and 4.2 million times yearly. The most obvious reason that Weblink is to lubricate our eyes. Lubricating tears are constantly being produced in your body and are made up of three layers
    1) The mucous layer so that it adheres to your eye.
    2) The aqueous layer, which is a thick layer that hydrates and keeps bacteria away.
    3) The oily layer prevents the other two layers, which are predominantly water, from evaporating.
         
    Also, blinking helps clear dust and particles that are continuously getting into your eyes. When your eyes water, the extra fluid helps cleanse and soak up the debris, while the blinking is like a windshield wiper pushing it away.
       
    Blinking also works as a reflex in response to external stimuli. Your eyes can close in 0.1 seconds after a stimulus is detected. Sometimes, the stimulus is the bright bathroom light at 3 a.m. Sometimes, it’s a fistful of sand. The corneal reflex prevents as much debris as possible from entering and damaging your eye.
         
    WHY DO WE YAWN?
    It was long believed that yawning was a respiratory function. When your body runs low on oxygen, a yawn is triggered to force a deep inhale and exhale. This increases oxygen levels in the bloodstream, and the yawn raises your heartbeat to pump the oxygen-rich blood.
         
    While this theory is still possible, or is, perhaps, one aspect of yawning, it’s not the whole story. Instead of oxygen deprivation, researchers now believe that the primary function of yawning is regulating temperature. Your brain is the most energy-hungry organ in your body. It uses about 40% of your total metabolic energy. All that energy means that your brain tends to run hot and needs some way to cool down. Your brain uses yawning like your computer uses fans.
       
    During a yawn, cold air is brought in through the mouth. The muscles in your jaw and around your skull contract and stretch, increasing blood circulation. The air cools the blood, and the increase in heart rate pumps the cooler blood to your brain. A calmer brain is a more alert brain.
         
    Your body knows how to be efficient. If the surrounding air is cooler, yawning will be more effective. Studies have shown that people yawn more frequently in cooler temperatures. People yawned 21% more often when the outside air was 70 degrees Fahrenheit versus 98 degrees (body temperature). Similar results were also found with other species of animals.
         
    There are dozens of other triggers associated with yawning, however. Apparent culprits like boredom and drowsiness mean your brain needs to be stimulated. Still, yawning can also be triggered by other events like anxiety, hunger, or even a change of activity. Any time your brain needs extra focus, it might trigger a yawn for a refreshing cool down.
       
    Get used to it; you cannot suppress these human traits. 

    EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT! 

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    WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
    Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
         
    READ
    Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
         
    THE BURST!
    Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
       
    BE POSITIVE!
    Just as positive words can make someone smile, and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
       
    “YOU”
    Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
       
    SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
    To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
       
    QUOTES
    Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.  
       
    QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
    Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
       
    PEARLS OF WISDOM
    In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
         
    WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
    The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
         
    THESE QUOTES
    When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
       
    READ CAREFULLY
    These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
    You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
    These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
    They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
    Use them to your advantage!
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    I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
    INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
       
    “Feeling beautiful has nothing to do with what you look like.”
    – Emma Watson
       
    “And I said to my body softly,
    I want to be your friend.
    It took a long breath and replied,
    “I’ve been waiting my whole life for this.”
    – Nayyirah Waheed
       
    “The best gift you are ever going to give someone —
    the permission to feel safe in their skin.”
    ― Hannah Brencher
         
    “She knew the power of her mind and so programmed it for success.”
    — Carrie Green
       
    “If you believe you can, you probably can.
    If you believe you won’t, you most assuredly won’t.
    Belief is the ignition switch that gets you off the launching pad.”
    — Denis Waitley
         
    “What we think determines what happens to us,
    so if we want to change our lives,
    we need to stretch our minds.”
      — Wayne Dyer
         
    “Whatever we plant in our subconscious mind and nourish
    with repetition and emotion will one day become a reality.”
    — Earl Nightingale
         
    “If constructive thoughts are planted,
    positive outcomes will result.
    Plant the seeds of failure,
    and failure will follow.”
      — Sidney Madwed
       
    “The greatest force is derived from the power of thought.
    The finer the element, the more powerful it is.
    The silent power of thought influences people even at a
    distance because the mind is one as well as many.
    The universe is a cobweb; minds are spiders.”
      — Swami Vivekananda
         
    “Reality is a projection of your thoughts or
    the things you habitually think about.”
    — Stephen Richards
         
    “It’s not the situation causing your stress; it’s your thoughts, and you can change that right here and now. You can choose to be peaceful right here and now. Peace is a choice, and it has nothing to do with what other people do or think.”
    — Gerald G. Jampolsky, MD
         
    “Whatever you hold in your mind consistently
    is exactly what you will experience in your life.”
    — Tony Robbins
       
    “You are today where your thoughts have brought you;
    you will be tomorrow where your thoughts take you.”
    — James Allen
       
    “Nothing is good or bad, but thinking makes it so.”
    — William Shakespeare
       
    “You have powers you never dreamed of.
    You can do things you never thought you could do.
    There are no limitations in what you can do except
    the limitations of your own mind.”
    —  Darwin P. Kingsley
       
    “One day, I decided I was beautiful.
    So, I carried out my life like a beautiful girl.
    It doesn’t have anything to do with how the world perceives you.
    What matters is what you see.”
    ― Gabourey Sidibe
       
    “Confidence is the only key.
    I can’t think of any better representation of
    beauty than someone unafraid to be herself.”
    – Emma Stone
       
    “You can be the most beautiful person in the world, and everybody sees light and rainbows when they look at you, but if you don’t know it, all that doesn’t even matter. Every second you spend doubting your worth, every moment you use to criticize yourself is wasted, a moment of your life thrown away. It’s not like you have forever, so don’t waste any of your seconds; don’t throw even one of your moments away.”
    ― C. JoyBell C.
       
    “If anything is sacred,
    the human body is sacred.”
    ― Walt Whitman
         
    “All parts of the human body get tired eventually –
    except the tongue.”
    ― Konrad Adenauer
       
    “The human body experiences a powerful gravitational pull in the direction of hope. That is why the patient’s hopes are the physician’s secret weapon. They are the hidden ingredients in any prescription.”
    ― Norman Cousins
       
    “The human body is strange, flawed, and unpredictable.
    The human body has many secrets and does not divulge
    them to anyone except those who have learned to wait.”
    ― Paul Auster
       
    “As an illustrator, you need to understand the human body – but having looked at and understood nature, you must develop an ability to look away and capture the balance between what you’ve seen and what you imagine.”
    ― Quentin Blake
               
    “The human body and mind are tremendous forces that continually amazing scientists and society. Therefore, we have no choice but to keep an open mind about what the human being can achieve.”
    ― Evelyn Glennie
       
    “I’m not a man trapped in a woman’s body.
    I’m a brain trapped in a human body.”
    ― Genesis P-Orridge
       
    “The normal human body should be glorified.
    You’re not healthy if you need a stick to wash yourself.”
    ― Anthony Bourdain
       
    “The human mind has continuously evolved in the company of the human body and the animal body before it was human. The intricate connections between the mind and the body must exceed our imagination; from our point of view, we are peculiarly prevented from observing them.”
    ― John Desmond Bernal
       
    “An abundant supply of excellent water,
    forming a volume equal in bulk to the human body,
    is conveyed by one of these pipes and distributed about the city,
    where the inhabitants use it for drinking and other purposes.”
    ― Hernan Cortes
       
    “Criticism may not be agreeable, but it is necessary.
    It fulfills the same function as pain in the human body.
    It calls attention to an unhealthy state of things.”
    ― Winston Churchill 

    YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
    YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
    COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
    YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
    YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
    WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!

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    MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>

    Each week goes by so quickly.
    It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
    You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
     
    Do you know what you did last Monday?
    Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
    You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
    Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!
       
    3/22–Staying at the hotel is like being in a jail cell.
    I once had to stay in jail for one month on a flash charge.
         
    3/23–It’s Sunday at about noon. I just went outside for a walk, stood, looked around, and started crying, telling myself, “I hate my life.” I don’t know what will improve things, but I have sunk so low. All morning, I mindlessly watch videos on YouTube; oh boy.
       
    This afternoon, I watched a very dramatic video called “Convict.”
    This film reminded me of 2012 when I had to spend a month in jail on a false charge.
    I was scared the entire time I was there.
    I wrote the following words while in jail >>
             
    First, driven to the Trainer police station, quite surprised at the officers’ words, “We won’t have to put the handcuffs on you yet.”  I’ve never tried on those bracelets before; I could not imagine.  In the police station, he did some paperwork and then, to my amazement, fingerprinted me and did mug shots–like a common criminal.  Yes, things were building and getting worse.
       
    Next, he drove me about 3 miles away to a local court to see a judge.  By this time, my mind was reeling with all these events, sent into a sad abyss.  Again, mug shots were taken, and more fingerprints were taken.  My mind and heart were looking down an unfortunate path.  The judge read the charges:
    1)  Terroristic threats with the intent to terrorize another.
    2)  Harassment–subjecting others to physical conduct.
    3)  Disorderly Conduct Hazardous physical offense.
         
    Shocked at these charges, I could do nothing; I was not allowed to say a thing.  The judge announced that I was to go to jail for a psychological examination.  Handcuffs were placed on my wrists and put into a van they used to transport criminals. I was whisked off to jail (no passing go, no collecting $200).
       
    At this point, I’ve never had trouble with the law (except for a couple of traffic tickets), been in handcuffs, and never been in jail.  My entire life had changed.  Down I slipped into that sad abyss.
     
    Because I was not allowed to make any phone calls or talk to anyone for the next five days, no one knew I was taken to jail or where I was.
    Who will find my four rabbits?
    Who will get my mail?
    What about the food in the fridge going rancid?
    Who will turn off my computer that was left on?
       
    At this point, you have to remember that all of this was done with NO EVIDENCE, NO WITNESSES, NO PROOF, and NO WORD FROM ME.  All thrust upon me, and I could not say a word in my defense.  I was never read my rights and could not talk to a lawyer.  Ripped away from my life and thrown in jail.  Just think, it could have been you; they could have done this to anyone.
         
    So, here I am, “Hi, jail.”  I had to give them everything I had with me (I hope my debit cards are right.)  They even took my glasses.  In my wallet, I had $555.  If you have it, they automatically take $140 for the jail (theft?)  They gave me blues every prisoner wears, including blue flats for your feet.  A beautiful specimen was I. 
         
    After I got the “blues” on, I looked sad and said goodbye to my other stuff.  Off to, yes, a third set of mugshots and fingerprints (boy, I must have been a nasty boy.)
    Let me know if you want to read further about my stay in jail. I will send you more words.
         
    3/24–I have been working on this blog since early today.
                I hope it inspires you with good ideas.
       
    3/25–When I moved out of my house and into my van in 2012, I had to get rid of many things I owned. After I recently crashed my van, I got what I could out of it but had to leave much. I went from having much to very little. That is alright; I can always find new or used things to replace or add to what I have.
     
    Today, I met with Dr. Chakara, who examined me about my brain injury. My daughter April once had him as her teacher. I’ve not seen his results, so I cannot comment. Dr. Chakara and I  talked for an hour, and then someone else tested my memory (which is not very good) through number, letter, and word memory.
         
    His results will go to Greg at Selective Insurance; they will decide my future. This makes me excited, curious, and scared about my future.
       
    3/26–I stayed in my room all day, watching YouTube videos and doing computer work.
    I want to discover my next talent, and then you can’t hold me back—I will strive for excellence.
         
    Also, I worked on my blog. When I write, I want to have a reason for every work. I look closely at what I write, all for your benefit.
         
    3/27–Jasmine drove me for a return visit with Dr. Chhakara, who had to redo some of the testing. I am curious on what his results will show, I don’t feel I am that bad off.
         
    3/28–Once again, most of the was spent in my apartment on the computer.
    This is my life now; I know it will change in the future.
    My daughters, April and Jasmine, have added much to my life. Thank you so much, my daughters. 

    THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

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    THE GARDEN THIS WEEK

    I keep this section about gardening in.
    I do like the skill and hope you do, too.

    Winter is here now.
    But there are still things you can grow.
    And remember about indoor gardening.
         
    A self-supporting life can be a better life.
    A garden would be a part of that life.
         
    You must look into it.
       
    Because I am back on the road.
    There will be no more words about the garden.
    I do hope Beth keeps it up.
    We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
       
    When I drove the van seven years ago,
    I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
    I may start that up in my van garden again.
    You will find out, of course.

    START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
    IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!

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    ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
    YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
    Can you control your bodily functions?
    Practice this week; let me know.
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    NEXT BLOG >>
    Your ideas and input would be welcomed, and I would be delighted.
    Please send me suggestions on future blog topics you want me to write about.
    BLOG 317–Finding Confidence
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    AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?


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  • BLOG 315–Write Right!

    “KITTING AROUND”
    BLOG 315–Write Right!
    Don’t sleepwalk through life.
    I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
    Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
    Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
    Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!

    *** A world-class juggler/performer.
    *** The value that every moment has.
    *** Only YOU know what is best for you.
    *** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
    *** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
    *** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
    *** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
    *** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
    *** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
    *** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
    *** What do you want to accomplish before you die? 
    *** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
    *** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
    *** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
    *** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
    *** What are you genuinely passionate about?
    *** What do you want to accomplish?
    *** You cannot change the past.
    *** Remember, the future will come.
    *** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
    *** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo 

    BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
    ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!

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    WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
    I’m sure you have many who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
         
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
    Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
    These words can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
    You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age.
    Let these ideas motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
    Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
    We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
               
    MY EXPERIENCES
    You already know much about my writing, and I want to remind you of these ideas.
    My views can provide you with additional thoughts, along with yours, to help you.
    I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
    Remember — only you know what is best for you.
    And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
         
    Learn a New Word Every Day!.
    Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/ 

    YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
    THINK  —  AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
    WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE? 

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    OPENING WORDS

    Living a nightmare, I am. The last accident was just added to my other pains. Since the accident in 1982, my balance has been adequate but not good at all; I could never balance on one leg very well. This morning, Wednesday, I lost my balance and fell on my butt. That surprised me. This is the only time I remember falling.
               
    You know about the limited sleep I get. Well, I got one or two hours of shuteye last night. I have been tired all day today, Wednesday. This is not a good thing to go through. It makes me look at my entire life and wonder if it would be better if I weren’t here anymore.
     
    Could things be getting worse for me? I am not happy at all. For most of my life since the accident, I have been joyful. I’m unsure what it will take to return to my happiness; I don’t know where to find it. It’s hard even to smile anymore.
       
    Since Beth kicked me out, I have been lonely. I still don’t know why she had me leave; perhaps I will never know. I did much to advance our house and paid for most of it, too. We are still married, and she has not filed the necessary papers for divorce. Divorce is nothing I ever wanted, but it happens often in the world.
         
    I have awakened to be next to someone for most of my life.
    Now I have no one, such a change.
    Lonely I am.
    Will you be my girlfriend?
         
    And my teeth hurt.
    What am I to do?
    Death gets closer.
    Would anyone miss me if I wasn’t around?
     
    Here’s the upcoming schedule >>
    March 25–I meet with the neurosurgeon doc and find out how bad I am.
    Then, Selective Insurance, the insurance of the guy who hit me, will attempt to find me somewhere to live. I am questioning this choice I will eventually have. I’m sort of excited and also scared about what my future holds.
       
    On YouTube, I just watched the movie, “One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest”. It’s perfect timing to see this masterpiece. It made me think of myself going to a brain injury clinic to stay, and it would be like the hospital where they were in the movie. I cannot be controlled; that would destroy me.
       
    What a dramatic moment it was when I walked away from the van. I got what I could from the van but could not get it all. I left many memories and history back in the auto junkyard. The van is dead, which makes me so sad.
       
    Jasmine let me use her car while I was here, thank you, Sweetie. She will take her car back on Saturday. Yet, I did not use it very much, not the same as having my van, being able to go anywhere at any time. I have nowhere to go, so I haven’t.
         
    I need a new vehicle. Can you help? Do you have an old car you are not using, or do you know someone who can help? I will fly to anywhere to pick up the vehicle. Please help; I need wheels.
       
    A GoFundMe account was developed to help, but some scammers in Africa took it over, and I did not get much. What an awful way for someone to make money; I could not understand. If you can help me financially, please contact me at kitsummers@gmail.com directly.
           
    I hate just to be spending time on Earth until I die, but currently, that is happening. For most of my life, I have known what my future holds. Right now, I have no idea what my future holds — exciting and also kind of scary.
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    BLOG 315–Write Right!
       
    This subject of writing I covered in the past.
    I hope it helped you with your pen-to-paper (or fingers-to-keyboard) skills.
    If you learn to communicate well, you can live the life that “YOU” desire.
       
    Each week, I put words together to add to your life. I’ve written hundreds of blog posts. Quite a challenge to bring together words for you each week on different topics. You can do the same! As I’ve written before, “If one person can do it–so can you!–You just have to find the way.” Start your blog today!
       
    I’ve written 15 books to help people, along with my weekly blog. I never saw myself as a writer in my younger days—here I am. You are too, yes? Please start posting and adding to my weekly blog and/or start your blog. I would love to read your words. Posting words is the key; you may have to make yourself first.
       
    To become a better writer, you must practice regularly, read widely, understand your audience, and focus on conciseness and clarity. You must also use an active voice and avoid jargon and filler words. One top writing tip is to write as regularly as possible. This helps you exercise the part of your brain responsible for your writing skills.
         
    Every word you write should have a purpose and broaden what you have written. Your words and paragraphs should build and build the purpose of what you want to get across.
         
    Even if you feel like you’ve mastered the basics of writing, there’s always more to learn. Keep reading books about writing, watching videos, and taking courses or participating in workshops to improve your skills. The best writing uses limited words to get your point across.
         
    There are plenty of writing tools available on computers. For all my writing, I use https://app.grammarly.com/; it does wonders for what I publish. Clear communication fuels results that speak for themselves, whether in a winning sales pitch or a blog to help people. 
                   
    Grammarly is the AI communication partner trusted by over 40 million people and 50,000 organizations. From instantly creating a first draft to perfecting a final one, Grammarly helps you develop your message and bring home the desired results. There are free versions of Grammarly or a low fee for a better, paid version. Look into it; this program will improve your writing, for sure.
       
    Grammarly Free is designed to improve and polish everyday writing so anyone can confidently write. Grammarly Pro goes further, helping professionals and teams streamline workflows and make every document and message more effective. Believe me, it is worth the money.
         
    The more you know about writing, the better you’ll be at it. In addition, by continually learning new things, you’ll be able to bring fresh perspectives to your writing. So, commit to keep growing as a writer, and you’ll see your skills improve drastically, done with an active voice.
       
    Definition:
    An active voice occurs when the subject of a sentence.
    Does the verb describe the action?
    The typical structure is Subject + Verb + Object.
       
    Here is an example >>
    Active: “The dog chased the ball.” (The dog is doing the action)
    Passive: “The ball was chased by the dog.” (The ball is receiving the action)
       
    Benefits of Active Voice:
    Clarity: An active voice makes it easier for the reader to understand who is doing what.
    Conciseness: Active sentences are often shorter and more direct than passive sentences.
    Emphasis: Active voice emphasizes the subject, the doer of the action.
       
    When to use Active Voice:
    The active voice is most often preferred unless there’s a specific reason to use the passive voice (e.g., when the action is more important than the actor or when the actor is unknown or unimportant).
       
    Ideals to help >>
    1–Practice Regularly:
    Write consistently: Like any skill, writing improves as you use it.
    Set writing goals: Aim to write regularly, even if it’s just for a few minutes daily.
    Don’t be afraid if you write poorly.
    Just focus on getting words on the page and then edit later.
    (The key to good writing is the editing process, by the way.)
       
    2–Read Widely:
    Expose yourself to different subjects and styles: Read a variety of styles and authors to learn from their techniques. We all write differently, so pay close attention to sentence structure and vocabulary. Notice how authors craft their writing and use the language. As you read, read aloud: This helps you identify awkward phrasing and improve flow.
       
    3–Understand Your Audience:
    Know your readers and what they look for: Consider their background, knowledge, and expectations.
    Edit your writing style to them: Adjust your tone and vocabulary to suit your audience.
    Ensure your points are clear and easy to understand–
    Clear writing is usually more effective.
       
    4–Focus on Clarity and Conciseness:
    Use simple language: Avoid jargon and complex sentences unless necessary.
    Be direct and to the point: Get straight to the point and avoid unnecessary words.
    Use active voice: Active voice makes your writing more engaging and easier to read.
    Edit and revise: Don’t be afraid to cut unnecessary words or sentences.
    Fewer words often lead to better communication.
       
    5–I’d like you to outline your writing:
    This step will help you organize your thoughts and create a logical flow.
    Take notes: Jot down ideas and information as you read and research.
             
    6–Seek feedback: Ask others to read your work and provide constructive criticism.
    Don’t be afraid to break the rules: Once you understand the writing rules, you can experiment with different styles and techniques. Do your research: Solid research adds depth and credibility to your work.
       
    PRACTICE TIME >>
    Here are some exercises to help improve your writing.
    Write about each of these areas.
    Thank you, Jasmine, for sending these,
       
    A Place That Changed You–
    Write about a destination that transformed your perspective, mindset, or way of life.
       
    A Journey Through the Senses—
    Describe a place using only sensory details: sounds, smells, textures, and tastes–details.
         
    Lost & Found–
    Share a story about getting lost in a new place and what you discovered.
       
    Letter to a City–
    Write a love letter (or a breakup letter) to a city you’ve visited or lived in.
         
    The First 24 Hours—
    Capture the magic, confusion, and excitement of your first day in a new destination.

    EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT! 

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    WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
    Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
         
    READ
    Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
         
    THE BURST!
    Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
       
    BE POSITIVE!
    Just as positive words can make someone smile and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
         
    “YOU”
    Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
       
    SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
    To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
       
    QUOTES
    Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.  
       
    QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
    Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
       
    PEARLS OF WISDOM
    In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
       
    WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
    The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
         
    THESE QUOTES
    When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
         
    READ CAREFULLY
    These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
    You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
    These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
    They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
    Use them to your advantage!
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    I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
    INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
    “That’s the thing about books,
    they let you travel without moving your feet.”
    —Jhumpa Lahiri
       
    “And now that you don’t have to be perfect,
    you can be good.”
    —John Steinbeck
       
    “I don’t wait for moods.
    You accomplish nothing if you do that.
    Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”
    —Pearl S. Buck
       
    “No need to force yourself to do something the “right way”.
    If it’s not your right way.
    Your job is to honor your process.”
    —Andi Cumbo
       
    “Writing is a calling, not a choice.”
    —Isabel Allende
       
    “For your born writer, nothing is so healing as the
    realization that he has come upon the right word.”
    —Catherine Drinker Bowen
         
    “Instructions for living a life.
    Pay attention.
    Be astonished.
    Tell about it.”
    ―Mary Oliver
       
    “When I write,
    I give people access to their own emotions.”
    —Gord Downie
         
    “Lying in front of the house, all
    afternoon, trying to write a poem.
    Falling asleep.
    Waking up under the stars.”
    —Jack Gilbert
       
    “Give me books, fruit, French wine,
    fine weather and a little music.”
    —John Keats
         
    “The idea is to write it so that people hear it and it
    slides through the brain and goes straight to the heart.”
    —Maya Angelou
       
    “We write to taste life twice, in the moment and in retrospect.”
    ―Anaïs Nin
       
    “Start writing, no matter what.
    The water does not flow until the faucet is turned on.”
    ―Louis L’Amour
         
    “There is something delicious about writing the first words of a story.
    You never quite know where they’ll take you.”
    ―Beatrix Potter
       
    “A word after a word after a word is power.”
    ―Margaret Atwood
       
    “The purpose of a writer is to keep
    civilization from destroying itself.”
    ―Albert Camus
       
    “My aim is to put down on paper what I see
    and what I feel in the best and simplest way.”
    ―Ernest Hemingway
         
    “If a story is in you, it has to come out.”
    —William Faulkner
       
    “I love writing.
    I love the swirl and swing of words
    as they tangle with human emotions.”
    —James Michener
       
    “Your intuition knows what to write,
    so get out of the way.”
    —Ray Bradbury
       
    “A writer, I think, is someone
    who pays attention to the world.”
    —Susan Sontag
       
    “The scariest moment is always just before you start.”
    —Stephen King
         
    “Fill your paper with the breathings of your heart.”
    —William Wordsworth
           
    “That’s the thing about books,
    they let you travel without moving your feet.”
    —Jhumpa Lahiri
       
    “And now that you don’t have to be perfect, you can be good.”
    —John Steinbeck
       
    “I don’t wait for moods.
    You accomplish nothing if you do that.
    Your mind must know it has got to get down to work.”
    —Pearl S. Buck
         
    “No need to force yourself to do something
    the “right way” if it’s not your right way.
    Your job is to honor your process.”
    —Andi Cumbo
         
    “Writing is a calling, not a choice.”
    —Isabel Allende
         
    “A good poem is a contribution to reality.
    The world is never the same once a good poem has been added to it.
    A good poem helps to change the shape of the universe,
    helps to extend everyone’s knowledge of himself and the world around him.”
    ―Dylan Thomas
         
    “If something inside of you is real,
    we will probably find it interesting,
    and it will probably be universal.
    So you must risk placing real emotion
    at the center of your work.
    Write straight into the emotional center of things.”
    —Anne Lamott

    YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
    YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
    COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
    YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
    YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
    WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!

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    MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>

    Each week goes by so quickly.
    It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
    You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
     
    Would you happen to know what you did last Monday?
    Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
    You can keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
    Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!
       
    3/15–I can’t remember what I did on this day. I’m sorry.
       
    3/16–I went to Best Buy about my old computer, which they had to repair. I was told that they would buy my old computer. I checked for an open-box computer, which had a good discount. About two hundred for the new computer. Jasmine thought it was too much to spend when I needed a new vehicle, so I did not buy it.
       
    Beth and I were married for about two years. Today, I received evil hatred from her; I did not even know why. She has a friend named Valerie, who also sent hatred my way—such a difference I found in her. There is hatred, but I still love the woman.
     
    3/17–I’ve been thinking a lot about my van. Linda, who works as a taxi, helped me get my stuff from the van and took photos of it.
    As you can see from the images, it was worse than I imagined.

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     


    3/18–I Spent most of the day in my single room, although I got out to buy some food. I ate a salad; that is all I will eat. But I wrote that too soon. I made spaghetti with chicken, which was tastiness and filled me up.
         
    Up at midnight thinking about the accident.
         
    3/19–Last night, I did not return to slumber; today, I will be tired. As you’ve read, sleep has always been a problem for me. I still function fine, even with little shuteye.
       
    At noonish, I will go to volunteer with https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/
    I like helping if I can, and it takes me off of my miserable life.
    Things have got to change for the better sometimes. I’ll wait and see.
    Today, eight of us taped bags of rice, and they wouldn’t leak.
         
    Right now, on YouTube, I am watching “One Flew Over the Couckoo’s Nest.” I have concerns that something like that will be in my future, and it scares me.
           
    3/20–Very lonely here, still. For much of the day, I worked on my writing for you. Do you see improvements?
           
    I have such great memories of the past when I could bring joy into my life.
    What is different now?
    Well, I look to the future and see nothing.

    Thank you, Jasmine and April, my daughters, for helping while I am in the area.
          
    3/21–Slept until 3 am, late for me. But that’s enough about my sleep troubles. 

    THEN, KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

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    THE GARDEN THIS WEEK

    I keep this section about gardening in.
    I do like the skill and hope you do, too.

    Winter is here now, but there are still things you can grow.
    And remember about indoor gardening.
         
    A self-supporting life can be a better life.
    A garden would be a part of that life.    —
         
    You must look into it.
       
    Because I am back on the road, there will be no more words about the garden.
    I do hope Beth keeps it up.
    We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
       
    When I drove the van seven years ago,
    I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
    I may start that up in my van garden again.
    You will find out, of course.

    START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
    IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!

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    ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
    YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
    Work on your writing and communication skills this week.
    I want to see avancement in your written word.
    Let me know later how you advanced.
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    NEXT BLOG >>
    BLOG 316–Things you do as a human (yes, YOU.)
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    AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?


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  • BLOG 314–PLAYTIME!

    “KITTING AROUND”
    BLOG 314–PLAYTIME!
    Don’t sleepwalk through life.
    I aim to Illuminate Your Life with my Words.
    Do You Wander Aimlessly or Wonder About the Possibilities?
    Embark on Your Journey of Self-Discovery and Personal Growth.
    Let’s Ignite Moments of Self-reflection and Deep Contemplation Together.
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU TO LIVE DIFFERENTLY AND BETTER!

    *** A world-class juggler/performer.
    *** The value that every moment has.
    *** Only YOU know what is best for you.
    *** Going through a 37-day coma — Yikes!
    *** The joy I experience in life is a wondrous thing!
    *** It was a life-altering experience that gave me joy.
    *** More than just you, I hope I help many others through you.
    *** This blog looks best when viewed on a laptop.
    *** If you read through Facebook, see >> kitsummers.com
    *** Despite being hit by two trucks, I remain happy.
    *** What do you want to accomplish before you die? 
    *** I lived in my van for six years, which was very nice.
    *** I visited all US national parks and met Beth.
    *** Beth and I got married on 2/22/22 at 2:22.
    *** But sadly, our divorce is imminent.
    *** What are you genuinely passionate about?
    *** What do you want to accomplish?
    *** You cannot change the past.
    *** Remember, the future will come.
    *** All you have is now—ALWAYS!
    *** Have you seen >> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFC5vLPDWRo 

    BE TAKEN AWAY WITH ME
    ON WONDERFUL ADVENTURES!

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    WHY I WRITE THIS BLOG
    You will have many in your life who assist and teach; I hope I help guide you. I want to lighten your path toward excellence. I am not trying to show you “the way”; I am trying to help you find “your way.” Writing this blog each week is new and different for me each time—I love it! In other words, I hope to continually add to your life and bring you to a higher level. Your life should always be starting again–a better life each time!
         
    I WANT TO INSPIRE YOU WITH MY WORDS –WORDS HAVE POWER!
    They can fill you with optimism and empower you to think positively.
    Are you accomplishing what you want before your eventual demise?
    You can (and should) make changes to improve your life — at every age. Let this thought motivate and drive you towards self-improvement.
    Of course, that leads to helping others have a better life.
    We all need to help each other reach a higher level.
               
    MY EXPERIENCES
    You already know much about what I write, and I want to remind you of these ideas and show that my views can provide you with additional thoughts, along with yours, to help you.
    I hope to spread ideas from my life so you can live better.
    Remember — only you know what is best for you.
    And — you are only as young as the last time you changed your mind!
         
    Learn a New Word Every Day!
    Sign up at >> https://www.wordgenius.com/ 

    YES, YOU STILL HAVE TIME TO FIND YOUR SUCCESS!
    THINK  —  AND THEN THINK AGAIN.
    WHAT NEW STORIES ARE YOU READY TO WRITE? 

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    OPENING WORDS
    This week has been strange, with all these changes I have had to go through. It is odd not to have a home, not even a van. Eventually, these things will be replaced. I will meet with the doctor on March 25 to examine me and my brain. I will let you know.

    As you know, my van was totaled in a recent accident. Without transportation, it has been quite difficult. Do you have a vehicle or know someone who does, but it is not being used much? I would love to take over and give your vehicle a good life. Please write to me and let me know at kitsummers@gmail.com. I would appreciate your help.
          
    I am so lonely that I stay in this hotel room alone. I called Beth a couple of days ago, and she was distant and mean to me. I don’t know what I was expecting, and I should not have been surprised, but . . .
       
    My life continues to go nowhere. I believe I have much to live for, but I think I’m not applying myself enough.
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    BLOG 312–PLAYTIME!
       
    When was the last time you played and had fun in your life?
    What do play and curiosity mean to you?
    How about your friends?
    Do you find it fun to play with them?
     
    The infectious nature of humor creates a powerful bond. When I speak to groups or perform my juggling act, the shared laughter in the room instantly fosters a sense of connection. Play is a social activity that brings people together.
       
    Curiosity is essential for adults to maintain a sense of wonder, creativity, and well-being.
    Play is a powerful tool for stress reduction, emotional healing, and improved relationships.
    I want to encourage you to “loosen up” and rediscover the joy of simple activities.

    • Don’t take life too seriously.
    • Embrace your inner child.
    • Find joy in everyday moments.
    • Use humor to cope with stress.
    • Connect with others through laughter and play.
    • Live in the present moment.
    • Continuously learn and grow.
    • You are in control of your own life.

    Loosen up!
    When I loosened up and brought on fun and play, I saw the most progress in my life. Let go of some of those adult feelings that hold you back. You can still be mature about your responsibilities on the job and with your life. By bringing back the fun, curiosity, and joy, you will have more delight in your life, and everyone you deal with will loosen up. We live in an age that requires change, innovation, clear thinking, and creativity. The factors involved in humor require similar skills – play, exaggeration, associative thinking, reversal, developing spontaneity, and comic vision.
       
    Challenge!
    You must challenge yourself. As I was learning to walk again after my first accident, I saw a small row of bushes and jumped over them – I had to have my Kit fun. When we play spontaneously, we trigger endorphins in our brain that lift our spirits and calm our pain, fear, and burdens. Also, life can be difficult alone. When we play with other people, whether they’re family, friends, or strangers, we are reminded that we are not alone in the world; we are here as a group. The benefit is that we can connect to others in pleasant and meaningful ways that will expel loneliness as we bring on comedy.
       
    Humor Binds Us
    The whole room laughs when I speak for groups or perform a juggling act. Humor is infectious. The sound of laughter is far more contagious than any yawn. Joy brings on a certain mindset that is relaxing and helps in life. When there is laughter between people, it brings them together, and they bind in a close way. Play is often defined as a time when we feel most alive, yet we usually take it for granted and may completely forget about it.
     
    Free Medicine?
    A proven fact, laughter also generates healthy physical changes in the body. Humor and laughter fortify your immune system, decrease pain, boost your vitality, and protect you from the damaging effects of stress (yes, laughter is a primary stress reliever). Best of all, this precious medicine is fun, free, and easy to use. Everyone must laugh, for top health and well-being. A good laugh will weaken all the unpleasant thoughts you might be having. Your sense of humor is one of the most powerful things you have, and it will ensure your daily mood and emotional state support your good health.
       
    No More Stress
    I did go through depression for a time, as I’m sure you have, too. Laughter and joy helped to make me whole again. I could not be stressed and laugh simultaneously; the two don’t mix. Bring joy and laughter into your life, and watch the stress disappear. Having a sense of humor about life is crucial for a good life. When you are down, force yourself to laugh like when you were young, and you will see how good it makes you feel. Bringing on laughter is natural, and healing can profoundly affect our body and mind. We can and must bring back the laughter of our youth, letting it work its magic to bring on health and healing in our lives.
       
    Relief
    Laughter brings relief to life’s problems. Much of the humor comedians (like myself) use is laughing at what stresses us. Humor has always expressed the freedom of the human spirit—man’s capacity to stand outside of life and view the whole scene. We often see the big picture and laugh. Humor helps us handle the problems we believe we can’t control or solve. You have to think funny and paint funny images in your mind. Your active imagination is constantly tuned in. You have to always be in a receptive mood to see the humor that others overlook.
       
    Don’t Turn into an Adult
    I hear adults say to their children things like, “Stop being so immature,” or, “When are you going to grow up?” These people are trying to teach their children not to be kids. Sometimes, I’m sure these adults are jealous of kids’ carefree and innocent nature. Bring back that childhood fun and wonder that is within each of us. Take the time to ride your bike, fly a kite, juggle those balls, smell a rose, walk through the woods or a beautiful park, or walk barefoot in the sand at the beach. As adults, we need to explore the child within us.
     
    Grow Up?
    People turn into adults. They lose their childhood curiosity, fun, and play in their life. Without these traits, it is hard to learn and change. Even with the power of play, somewhere between early days and maturity, many of us stop playing and often stop learning. We exchange play for work and responsibilities. When we have time, we usually zone out in front of the computer or TV rather than engage in creative, brain-stimulating play. By giving ourselves approval to play with the joyful mind of a child, we can continue to gain benefits throughout our lives.
         
    Some benefits of bringing humor into your life:
    Humor boosts immunity
    Relaxes the whole body
    An antidote to loneliness and isolation
    Lowers stress hormones
    Decreases pain
    Triggers the release of endorphins
    Supercharges learning
    Provides peak experiences and intrinsic motivation
    Re-oxygenates your blood
    Helps defuse conflict
    Adds joy and zest to life
    Eases anxiety and fear
    Enhances resilience
    Protects the heart
    Enhances teamwork
    Improves mood
    Promotes group bonding
    Dissolves distressing emotions
    Enables you to relax and recharge
    Humor shifts perspective
    With all these benefits, you need to laugh and enjoy life more. Play is as significant to physical and psychological health as getting enough sleep, eating well, and exercising.
         
    The Child in You
    Do you remember how much fun it was as a kid to play ball with friends, fly kites, juggle, and explore? You can keep the same enjoyment as an adult by unceasingly learning more and doing interesting things. If you find yourself missing that child inside of you, you could get in touch with the child in you again by knowing that this child is not far behind you. Let yourself go a bit and bring back the curiosity and joy of life.
       
    A Joy!
    Take time to be silly, laugh, and make jokes about yourself. Connect with people in this way, and you will lead a better life. You may have to teach yourself to bring that childhood humor back. When I find myself being too serious, I put my hands out to my sides, up by my shoulders, and pretend I’m an airplane. My daughters don’t like it when I do this, but it brings me back to earth again. I bring on the childhood joy. Beyond all these marvelous reasons for playing, it simply brings fun to your life. Play is a state of mind that is blissful and happy.  It will change how you connect with people and how they connect with you.
       
    The Higher Place
    As humor, laughter, and play become a cohesive part of your life, your creativity will grow, and innovations for playing with friends, colleagues, and loved ones will occur daily. Your inventiveness will increase, too. Joking takes us to a higher place where you can see the world from a more relaxed, positive, creative, happy, and balanced perspective. Play is the learning path. Play stimulates our minds, helping us adapt and solve problems. Play brings curiosity, leading to creativity, discovery, and advancement.
       
    Helping Your Relationship
    When I have fun and play with my Tina, a bond develops that brings us close. Play is one of the best behaviors for keeping relationships alive and exciting. Playing with others for fun brings joy, energy, pleasure, and resilience to any relationship. Juggling and learning together are incredible highs. Play will also help heal pain, resentments, disagreements, and hurts. Through steady play, we learn to trust one another and feel safe. Trust enables us to work together better, discover new things about each other, and open us to intimacy. Love develops more and more.
         
    Laugh Every Day
    By consciously incorporating more humor, laughter, and play into your daily interactions with others, you will improve the quality of your connections with everyone. A joyous outlook is always good, from loving relationships to people you work with to people who pass by you on the street. This will bond people in the closest and best way. Humor and playful connection strengthen our relations by bringing positive feelings and emotional connection. When we joke around with one another, a positive relationship is created. You will find less stress, unhappiness, disagreements, and disappointment. I believe humor is the best way to connect with people. All animals, excluding man, know that the main object in life is to enjoy our time here on Earth.
       
    Ask Questions
    In my speaking programs, when I have a very young audience, the question and answer session at the end lasts a long time. There are fewer questions for a high school group, and it doesn’t take as long. For adults, there are hardly any questions at all from the audience. People tend not to ask questions because they don’t want to stand out.  They also lose their curiosity and don’t care about learning new things. You didn’t worry about asking the wrong questions when you were young. You knew you couldn’t understand anything without asking questions, even if it was terrible. Also, you can get anything you want in life if you ask the right questions of the right people. So, open up, start learning all you can about everything – ask questions.
         
    Limit TV
    Television can bring us humor and teach us many things, but, often, watching TV is like being in a coma. Many people sit in front of the TV and let it babysit them. These people allow the TV to be their escape from the world. There are many ways that TV has helped to improve human life, but don’t be one who sits in front of it and lets it babysit you. Television is a powerful learning instrument that can enhance our lives if used for learning. TV has changed the world, but so many televisions are turned to mindless programs that are just time fillers and not educational. You are the one who chooses how you will spend your time in front of the tube. Many do not know the difference between reality and fantasy on television. Much has been gained from television, but you have a choice. Learn to use it to advance your life. Look for the humor that you can bring to your life.
         
    Play at Work
    Working as a juggler and entertainer, I was fortunate that I had to play and have fun. Work is where we spend much of our time. That is why it is especially beneficial for us to play during work. Without some recreation, our work suffers. Success at work doesn’t depend on how much time you spend working; it relies on the quality of your output. And the quality of your production is highly reliant on your state of mind and well-being. Revising yourself through play is one of the best things you can do for your career. When there are problems with a project you’re working on, heading out to juggle for a bit or to play some basketball and have a few laughs does a lot more than take your mind off the problem. Play will allow you to return to your work renewed with a new perspective and with new answers to problems.
       
    Humor: A Good Thing
    Humor helps build quality relationships at work. Workers who find the funny side of daily routines improve morale and increase team cooperation. Humor can even help turn around bad relationships. We see a different side of people and them of us. Laughter is contagious, and so is negativism—which would you prefer?
       
    Play and Humor at Work:
    Keeps you functional when under stress.
    Refreshes your mind and body.
    Changes your outlook so you can produce more.
    Encourages teamwork.
    Helps you see problems in new ways.
    Enables you to be more spontaneous.
    Triggers creativity and innovation.
    It will make your work more productive and pleasurable.
    Increases energy and prevents burnout.
    Fosters creativity, flexibility, and learning.
    You will get more accomplished.
         
    Take the time
    Taking time out from your work is not only a great way to decrease stress, but it can also limit the number of sick days taken and increase your output in your business. We spend a considerable part of our lives at our chosen work; seeing it as somewhere that play is forbidden may harm our health. So, if you are a boss or run a business, bring play and joy into your workplace, and you will find that everyone is more dynamic. Your employees will work better for you and be more productive.
       
    Not So Serious – You Manager You
    Many employees and managers are far too serious. Somewhere, these people have confused work with seriousness. They have put a lid on their natural sense of humor. Humans are spontaneous and spirited creatures by nature, yet the older and more mature we become, the less we think it is appropriate to use humor in our everyday lives. We watch comedians, paying others to provide what we have stifled in our personalities. Learn to laugh at yourself and life, leaving you in a much better mood.
       
    They Must Play
    Having your employees work longer and harder without incorporating fun, play, or relaxation into their schedule will only result in exhaustion. Take time to have some fun with your friends. Go outside for a stroll during your break, arrange an office activity occasionally, teach everyone in the company to juggle, or simply hold an office game or a lighthearted contest.
       
    Play is only good
    Incorporating play into your work schedule helps everyone through stressful circumstances, builds your team, and helps with problem-solving. It inspires creativity, increases energy levels, and refreshes your mind and body. As you see, play must be a part of the workday.
         
    Develop Your Humor
    Adding humor to your life can make it sparkle, and, if you are a performer, it can add just the proper emphasis to make your audience stand up, take notice, and want more. It can be that magic touch that will have you return to the same place many times. With a universal appeal, comedy is the highlight of many acts.
       
    You are funny!
    Sometimes, people tell me, “I can’t do comedy.” It’s not as complicated as many people think. Anyone can develop their ability to be funny, but it takes work. Comedy is not just about saying funny lines.  It is you and the way you present the material. Don’t just make a random attempt at humor.
       
    Lines for you
    You Are Funny, Comedy Lines for You to Use:
    Ever stop to think what a chair would look like if your knees bent the other way?
    There are two great jugglers in this country, but that’s okay. There’s plenty of room for both of us.
    I once ran away with a circus, but they caught up with me and made me give it back.
    You may notice that my hands never leave my wrists while I do this.
    Everybody now, not just the kids and the drunks.
       
    For hecklers:
    Your wits are too much for me; I never was very good with fractions.
    On a scale of one to ten–you’re an idiot.
    The fact that you can dress yourself in the morning amazes me.
    It’s a shame that birth control isn’t retroactive.
    If I wanted your advice, I’d squeeze your head.
    Bring Back or Bring on Your Joy in Your Life
       
    Have the sense
    Having a sense of humor in and about life is essential for loving it. Humor will help relieve stress, enhance relationships, and extend your life. If you already have a sense of humor, grow it and use it as much as possible. Suppose you don’t, develop a humor-filled mind as soon as possible. Use your good humor to add to the excellent life you have created.
       
    Open up
    When I opened up and brought curiosity, fun, and play to the table,
    I saw improvement and movement forward.
         
    Make things better
    Play enhances your creativity and resilience, emphasizing the importance of diversity—diversity in interactions, behaviors, and connections. All meaningful, organic, and foundational learning is fundamentally playful and ludic. Play is the primary method through which children are meant to learn.
         
    Why be funny   
    Fun and play can have many benefits.
    Including improved focus,
    reduced stress,
    And increased creativity.
    Along with the following:
    1) Play can help people develop problem-solving skills and conflict resolution.
    2) Play can help people unlock parts of their brain that are often stifled by the seriousness of daily tasks.
    3) Improved mental health
    4) Play can stimulate endorphins, acting as a natural antidepressant.
    5) Play can improve memory.
    6) Improves focus and attention.
    7) Play can help children focus on tasks and activities for more prolonged periods.
    8) Playful learning can help children develop skills they need.
    9) Fun and play can have many benefits, including improved focus, reduced stress, and increased creativity.
    10) Play can help focus on tasks and activities for extended periods.
    11) Playful learning can help children develop skills they’ll need in the real world.
    12) When we have fun, our bodies release feel-good hormones that lower stress levels.
    13) Play can reduce stress and anxiety and elevate mood and creativity. 14) Playful thinking can help people be more creative.
    15) Play can help people think outside the box to solve problems.
    16) Sharing laughter and fun can help people foster empathy, compassion, trust, and intimacy with others.
    16) Play can help people learn new tasks better.
    17) Play can help people develop problem-solving skills and conflict resolution.
    18) Play can help people unlock parts of their brain that are often stifled by the seriousness of daily tasks.
    19). Play can stimulate endorphins, acting as a natural antidepressant.
    20) Play can improve memory.
    21) When we have fun, our bodies release feel-good hormones that lower stress levels.
    22). Play can reduce stress and anxiety and elevate mood and creativity.
    23) Playful thinking can help people be more creative.
    24) Play can help people think outside the box to solve problems.
    25) Sharing laughter and fun can help people foster empathy, compassion, trust, and intimacy with others.
    26) Play can help people learn new tasks better.
       
    Be happy
    Bring play and humor into your life.
    You will stay happier and the people around you will love you more.

    EMBRACE THE PRESENT MOMENT- EVERY SINGLE INSTANT! 

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    WORDS TO INSPIRE YOU!
    Inspirational quotes and sayings have a unique ability to change the way we feel about life and can change our thoughts. They are attractive, challenging, and essential on our path to joy and happiness and finding ways to inspire ourselves and others.
         
    READ
    Reading through the quotes below about life can do the trick if you’re looking for a pick-me-up or a healthy dose of motivation. Whether centered around positive affirmations, self-care, or success, life quotes can be powerful inspirational tools.
         
    THE BURST!
    Inspirational quotes and ideas give us a quick and timely burst of wisdom to regain our focus, offering the inspiration needed for the day or occasion. I hope the words below bring a smile to your face and drive you to make this day and every day a fantastic event.
       
    BE POSITIVE!
    Just as positive words can make someone smile and a well-timed, amusing quote can make someone laugh, your thoughts react to the world in real time. Have this control! You have complete control over only one thing in the universe—YOUR THINKING!—and that’s where motivational quotes come in!
         
    “YOU”
    Your quality of thinking and how you think and feel about yourself, including your beliefs and expectations about what is possible, determine everything in your life. Use quotes to move ahead in your life.
       
    SELF-TALK IS SO ESSENTIAL—THINK RIGHT!
    To stay motivated, you have to use each day as an opportunity to improve and get closer to your goals. It might sound like a lot of work—and with your busy schedule—next to impossible. But you can do it! Motivational words, yes, are just words. But they are positive words; they will keep you on track.
     
    QUOTES
    Motivational quotes affect our brain, behavior, and lives because they make us feel like we are in control of our success and have self-efficacy. Quotes make us believe that we have the confidence to complete a task successfully, which is different from having the motivation to succeed.  
       
    QUOTES WILL BENEFIT YOU!
    Positive and inspiring quotes can be like sunshine on a cloudy day. They inject optimism into our thoughts, brighten our mood, and help us focus on the good in life. They remind us that even in the face of adversity, we can see the silver lining and embrace a positive attitude.
       
    PEARLS OF WISDOM
    In a world filled with challenges and indecisiveness, the power of inspirational quotes cannot be exaggerated. These pearls of wisdom uniquely uplift our spirits, can spark positive change, and fuel our motivation when we need it most.
         
    WORDS WILL CHANGE YOU!
    The correct motivational quote can change you and things—helping you ditch the excuses, escape your comfort zone, and take action. Read these words with an open mind and learn to improve your life.
         
    THESE QUOTES
    When you read these quotes, you’ll also realize that many other people worldwide are experiencing these feelings. These feelings make you think you’re the only person who could feel this bad. But you’re not. Lots and lots of other people feel bad, too. This is the irony of it. You don’t want other people to feel crappy, but it does make you feel better or at least comforted to know that other people feel just as bad as you.
         
    READ CAREFULLY
    These quotes can be used when you wake up or prepare for work.
    You can write your favorite quotes somewhere where you can see them first thing in the morning.
    These quotes are motivating, inspiring, and encouraging.
    They will help you see your potential, stay motivated, and see the beauty in every morning.
    Use them to your advantage! 

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    I HOPE THE FOLLOWING WORDS
    INSPIRE YOU AND ADD TO YOUR LIFE >>
       
    “Even though you’re growing up, you should never stop having fun.” – Nina Dobrev
       
    “Never, ever underestimate the importance of having fun.” – Randy Pausch
           
    “Just keep taking chances and having fun.” – Garth Brooks
         
    “Summer means happy times and good sunshine.
    It means going to the beach, going to Disneyland,
    having fun.”
    – Brian Wilson
       
    “We like having fun with everything we do.”
    – Young Dolph
         
    “There’s no fear when you’re having fun.”
    – Will Thomas
       
    “I think that success is having fun.”
    – Bruno Mars
       
    “I love fighting for what I believe in. I love having fun while doing it.”
    – Andrew Breitbart
       
    “Play is not the activity but the attitude.
    It’s the mindset.”
    — Darryl Edwards
       
    “Ritual grew up in sacred play; poetry was born and nourished on play; music and dancing were pure play. We have to conclude, therefore, that civilisation in its earliest phases, played.”
    — John Huizinga
         
    “People tend to forget that play is serious.”
    — David Hockney
       
    “This is the real secret of life–to be completely engaged with what you are doing in the here and now. And instead of calling it work, realise it is play.”
    — Alan Watts
         
    “It is a happy talent to know how to play.”
    ― Ralph Waldo Emerson
       
    “Combinatory play seems to be the essential feature in productive thought.”
    ― Albert Einstein
         
    “Genius is play, and man’s capacity for achieving genius is infinite, and many may achieve genius only through play.”
    ― William Saroyan
         
    “In play, a child always behaves beyond his average age, above his daily behavior.
    In play, it is like he was a head taller than himself.”
    — Lev Vygotsky
         
    “There is for many a poverty of play.”
    —D.W. Winnicott
       
    “The playing adult steps sideward into another reality;
    the playing child advances forward to new stages of mastery”
    — Erik H. Erikson
       
    “A child loves his play, not because it’s easy, but hard.”
    — Benjamin Spock
       
    “Play is training for the unexpected.”
    — Marc Bekoff
         
    “You can’t tell a kid it’s time to exercise; that’s a turn-off. You must say, ‘Let’s go to the park and have fun.’ Then you get them to do some running, play on the swings, practice on the balance beam, basically get a full workout disguised as play.”
    — Arnold Schwarzenegger
           
    “A lot is said about the serious because the most intelligent person is almost always playful.”
    ― Mokokoma Mokhonoana

    YOU MUST IMPROVE THE QUALITY OF YOUR THINKING,
    YOU CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE’S DIFFERENTIA—SOMETIMES INSTANTLY!
    COMPOSE A NOBLE BOOK AND WRITE A BEST-SELLER.
    YOU ARE AMAZING—PLAY YOUR PART!
    YOU CAN TURN THINGS AROUND FAST AND ACHIEVE YOUR
    WILDEST DREAMS NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN LIFE!

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    MY DAILY JOTTINGS >>
    Each week goes by so quickly, don’t you think?
    It seems like time is going by faster and faster.
    You must live joyfully, daily, for each day!
       
    Do you know what you did last Monday?
    Do you remember what you ate for dinner last Thursday?
    Keep track of your doings for a few weeks; you will see your time differently.
    Remember, the quality of your life depends on what you do each day- each moment!     
         
    3/8–Yes, I get tired throughout the day, but I continue. I’m still unsure how to get more sleep; perhaps I don’t need it.
       
    There was not a lot going on today. I worked on the computer and also went for a walk. My leg does not hurt anymore; it is comfortable now.
         
    I volunteered at the food place today. There were 20 of us there to work with Brussels sprouts. We were to cut the stem part off and remove the outer cover of the leaves. I did two to other people’s one; I was quick.
    https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/
         
    3/9–I heard from someone who says they want to make a movie of my story.
    If produced, this would help many people worldwide live better lives.
    https://voyagemedia.com/
    I will keep you updated on the possibilities of this happening.
    This gives me something to live for; I hope it comes to be.
       
    Then, it was off to Costco and Walmart to pick up a few things.

    Madrid, Spain, May. 19 2022: View of Costco wholesale store in Las Rozas


    Not too far away, that’s a good thing.
       
    3/10–I’m off to get beer today. Not that I need it, but a beer now and then does well with my mind.
         
    Thinking about my future, I don’t see anything. I did see something today, though. I had to go to the nearest 1st Citizens Bank, about 100 miles south. That is why I changed to a different bank; they were too far away.
       
    I volunteered again today at https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/ 
    Today, we worked with beans that were green (greenbeans) and took off both ends and filtered bad beans out.
       
    I was careful while driving, but I was tired and had double vision now and then. When I was in the area, I would pass by to get gas. I first went inside to see what was being sampled and ate well. Then, I drove to the gas pumps to fill up. I could not find my credit card! I searched everywhere, but there was no card. This drove me crazy.
       
    3/11–Jasmine came over to help with bank stuff this morning.
           
    I have some wonderful daughters, I must say. Volunteering again today at https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/ 
    Today, we worked with green (green beans) took off both ends and filtered bad beans out.
       
    3/12–I volunteered again today at the food place.

    3/13–Perhaps I wanted my van to croak? I didn’t even try starting the engine after the accident. Maybe I wanted things to start again? This would just be weird, though.
         
    At https://blessingsofhope.com/volunteer/ , it was peaches today.
         
    3/14–I look back at the accident and wonder if I was the one who wanted that to happen. I do like change, but come on now. Having to start a whole new life yet again, well, here I go. 

    THEN KEEP DOING NEW (DAILY) FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE!

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    THE GARDEN THIS WEEK

    I keep this section about gardening in.
    I do like the skill and hope you do, too.

    Winter is here now, but there are still things you can grow.
    And remember about indoor gardening.
         
    A self-supporting life can be a better life.
    A garden would be a part of that life.    —
         
    You must look into it.
       
    Because I am back on the road, there will be no more words about the garden.
    I do hope Beth keeps it up.
    We did a lot of work establishing our vegetable garden.
       
    When I drove the van seven years ago,
    I grew stuff under the sunroof windows on the top.
    I may start that up in my van garden again.
    You will find out, of course.

    START YOUR GARDEN TODAY!
    IT MAY BE NECESSARY FOR YOUR LIFE!

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    ALL OUR LIVES, WE MUST CHALLENGE OURSELVES!
    YOUR CHALLENGE FOR THE WEEK >>
    Keep a happy smile on your face as much as possible this week.
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    NEXT BLOG >>
    BLOG 315–Write, Right
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    AND WHAT ARE YOU PLANNING FOR YOUR UPCOMING WEEK?


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